The guy I'm seeing stole my neighbors package and admitted to it. Two weeks later

[S2B]

Why haven’t you stated that YOU decided not to see him again? 

Why haven’t you reported his theft to the authorities? He should have a consequence for being such a jerk/loser!

what are YOU going to do to take action against his criminal behavior?

[ExpatInItaly]

I sincerely hope you deleted this loser's number. 

I can't believe you haven't once expressed any sort of disdain for this person, in any of your posts on this thread. Do you not see his behaviour as seriously problematic? 

[Wiseman2]

It's a strange coincidence that both your BF and neighbors are drug dealers and criminals,no?

Why would you allow this guy in your home again knowing about the drug trafficking and steals "to pay bills"?💰

It seems you're a bit too comfortable with all the drug trafficking going on around you, no?🚬

Even funnier is that he "knew" it was weed from looking at the package.🌿

Are the drug trafficking people now putting a weed plant symbol on the packages like an Amazon logo?📬

Edited December 24, 2020 by Wiseman2

[Saracena]

9 hours ago, ThreatYouR said:

Basically i asked him why hasn’t he been around and that’s when he told me what he did 

Yes, but most people wouldn't admit to stealing in the first place!  At any rate it just doesn't excuse his total lack of contact in the interim. Even if true, I still think it's an excuse! Sorry.

[Watercolors]

13 hours ago, ThreatYouR said:

Yeah he knew. He told me he’s dealt drugs before so the box was familiar 

So, why are you with a drug dealer? Do you normally date felons? Serious question. How do you want this scenario to end? 

[d0nnivain]

10 hours ago, ThreatYouR said:

Basically i asked him why hasn’t he been around and that’s when he told me what he did 

Be grateful he's gone.  Leave him gone. 

[LeoLady888]

I'm taking all this with a 'pinch of salt'.

How did he know the package contained drugs, has he got X-ray vision ?!

 

[ThreatYouR]

11 minutes ago, LeoLady888 said:

I'm taking all this with a 'pinch of salt'.

How did he know the package contained drugs, has he got X-ray vision ?!

 

He said he used to sell weed and they disguise the package with a certain text so he knew what it was 

[poppyfields]

23 hours ago, ThreatYouR said:

Last Monday my neighbors were knocking at my door and asked had i seen a package because it says it was delivered but it wasn’t near their door or anything. And wondered if i signed for it or saw anything and i said “no” 

First off, the delivery service (Fed Ex, UPS) maintains receipts for every delivery.  To and from.  I find it extremely questionable that someone would be so lame as to have hand-delivered a package containing illegal drugs this way.   I mean it's just so easy to track!  It's federal crime to do this and would land both the sender and recipient in prison. 

I would think your neighbors would have contacted whomever sent it and asked them for a tracking number or receipt of delivery.  And then tracked it on line and see who signed for it or if it was left at the door, they would show the address it was delivered to.   

It's PROOF they delivered it to the correct address (or incorrect address).

If your boyfriend stole the package from their front door, then that alone is federal crime.  The fact it contained illegal drugs is another federal crime on top of that! 

The fact you are still dating this turkey, is also questionable.

This whole things sounds really fishy OP.

Edited December 24, 2020 by poppyfields

[ThreatYouR]

17 minutes ago, poppyfields said:

First off, the delivery service (Fed Ex, UPS) maintains receipts for every delivery.  To and from.  I find it extremely questionable that someone would be so lame as to have hand-delivered a package containing illegal drugs this way.   I mean it's just so easy to track!  It's federal crime to do this and would land both the sender and recipient in prison. 

I would think your neighbors would have contacted whomever sent it and asked them for a tracking number or receipt of delivery.  And then tracked it on line and see who signed for it or if it was left at the door, they would show the address it was delivered to.   

It's PROOF they delivered it to the correct address (or incorrect address).

If your boyfriend stole the package from their front door, then that alone is federal crime.  The fact it contained illegal drugs is another federal crime on top of that! 

The fact you are still dating this turkey, is also questionable.

This whole things sounds really fishy OP.

That’s the story he gave me. After that he asked what my neighbors looked like and their age etc. I’m not sure ... 

[ThreatYouR]

I’m not sure exactly what went down while i was gone. All i know is that my neighbors came to my house looking for the package not once but twice and the guy i was seeing didn’t admit into stealing it until a week later 

[Voivoda]

This will be great story to tell at parties. Other than letting your neighbour what happend and report that dude to the police, you can't do much about it. If I was your neigbour I would love to have that story to tell - "Hey, so I ordered this package with greenies and my neigbour was dating this guy for a few months. That dude decided to steal my package and ride into the sunset, never to be seen"

[Wiseman2]

1 hour ago, LeoLady888 said:

How did he know the package contained drugs, has he got X-ray vision ?

The drug sniffing dogs missed it so he's been trained to do it.🌿🐕‍🦺

[ThreatYouR]

On 12/23/2020 at 5:08 PM, Ruby Slippers said:

This guy is a Loser with a capital L. I'd never have anything to do with him again.

Also, I had no idea you could send weed through the mail. Ya learn something new every day.

I didn’t know either until he told me it’s a code on the box and he knew what it was 

[Miss Spider]

2 hours ago, ThreatYouR said:

He said he used to sell weed and they disguise the package with a certain text so he knew what it was 

Oh, so he’s  saying that not only is someone dumb enough to send a substantial amount of weed through the mail, they are dumb enough to put some universal “weed code” on it on the outside. I hope you don’t honestly believe that.

 

Lots of people smoke weed. Is it surprising that your neighbors do. But it could’ve literally been anything that was in that box.Most likely his broke *** stole what was intended to be your neighbors Xmas gift or something and lied about it being “contraband” to get back on your good 

Edited December 24, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes

[Miss Spider]

BTW , USPS does not keep receipts for who sends packages... at least not very good ones. You could put a fake or nonexistent address, buy a label online, print, stick that label on, and put it in a mailbox/chute and it will get shipped ... 

Edited December 24, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes

[ThreatYouR]

34 minutes ago, Shortskirtslonglashes said:

Oh, so he’s  saying that not only is someone dumb enough to send a substantial amount of weed through the mail, they are dumb enough to put some universal “weed code” on it on the outside. I hope you don’t honestly believe that.

 

Lots of people smoke weed. Is it surprising that your neighbors do. But it could’ve literally been anything that was in that box.Most likely his broke *** stole what was intended to be your neighbors Xmas gift or something and lied about it being “contraband” to get back on your good 

I don’t understand why telling me it was drugs would make him think he’s be on my good side... he’s dead wrong and i don’t agree with theft

[Watercolors]

4 minutes ago, ThreatYouR said:

I don’t understand why telling me it was drugs would make him think he’s be on my good side... he’s dead wrong and i don’t agree with theft

So give us an update. What have you decided to do about this loser? Are you still going to continue to date him? Are you going to file a police report on him? What have you told your neighbor? What are you going to do about this situation overall? 

[S2B]

Did you tell your neighbors your boyfriend took their package?

[poppyfields]

2 hours ago, Shortskirtslonglashes said:

BTW , USPS does not keep receipts for who sends packages... at least not very good ones. You could put a fake or nonexistent address, buy a label online, print, stick that label on, and put it in a mailbox/chute and it will get shipped ... 

And you know this how?  lol   I'm teasing.

But seriously the stuff I learn from you shortskirts, never ceases to amaze me.

I had no idea about UPS.  I send and receive packages from them all the time, I get a receipt and I can track it.

Who knew?

Anyway, I am with you, this sounds like a load of **** (didn't want to say the word right before Christmas, lol).

PS:  I just realized you wrote USPS (United States Postal Service, ie. regular mail).  I was referring to UPS (United Parcel Service), where a live person delivers the package to your address, and for which there is a tracking receipt.

Anyway, Merry Christmas cookies!  🎅

 

Edited December 25, 2020 by poppyfields

[DarrenB]

Ah yes... an unjustifiable situation from his behalf of which he tries to use dealing as a rational excuse for theft, AKA a typical junkie who willingly put themselves into the situation to begin with most likely because of greed. If it wasn't for you confronting him about it, he wouldn't have owned up and would have probably waited until he came up with an even more BS excuse as to why he hasn't been in touch. Repeat.

I hope you are no longer associating yourself with him for your own sake

[Miss Spider]

27 minutes ago, poppyfields said:

And you know this how?  lol   I'm teasing.

But seriously the stuff I learn from you shortskirts, never ceases to amaze me.

I had no idea about UPS.  I send and receive packages from them all the time, I get a receipt and I can track it.

Who knew?

Anyway, I am with you, this sounds like a load of **** (didn't want to say the word right before Christmas, lol).

PS:  I just realized you wrote USPS (United States Postal Service, ie. regular mail).  I was referring to UPS (United Parcel Service), where a live person delivers the package to your address, and for which there is a tracking receipt.

Anyway, Merry Christmas cookies!  🎅

 

😇😬 

Yes, the ones you mentioned (UPS/fedex) I think  keep way better track 

Merry Xmas ! 

[ThreatYouR]

1 hour ago, S2B said:

Did you tell your neighbors your boyfriend took their package?

No i haven’t because they came to my house twice asking about it and I’m scared they’ll think i had something to do with it

[Pumaza]

Some stranger you dating, you let him know where you live, and leave him in your house, 

Yet he also steal, and steal weed from the neighbour...?!!!😳🙊

You are dating a thug! He is a drugdealer and thief! If you honest about really ddnt know or notice he is or may be doing this kind of stuff, he is clearly a stranger.Sure also cause 2 monts you cant know someone.

He puts you in bad situation.Like really bad! Drugs go with violance.And those in it dont care if you knew him 2 secs or 2 monts if they know it happened at your house. Best is for sure cut him of.Block him everywhere. And keep your mouth shut about the package.And move out.

And dont bring people you dont know to your house.Or leave them there.He clearly a loser to for letting you leave your house to get him food.He shoulda done that for you!

[Pumaza]

14 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

It's a strange coincidence that both your BF and neighbors are drug dealers and criminals,no?

Why would you allow this guy in your home again knowing about the drug trafficking and steals "to pay bills"?💰

It seems you're a bit too comfortable with all the drug trafficking going on around you, no?🚬

Even funnier is that he "knew" it was weed from looking at the package.🌿

Are the drug trafficking people now putting a weed plant symbol on the packages like an Amazon logo?📬

you are so naughty.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅.but good points.