Merry Christmas and Happy New Year (Mr Flibble, hope you are less cross)

[Pottering About]

A difficult time of year for many on this group but I hope you have the best Christmas and that next year brings you all the happiness you wish for. 
 

It would be nice if people who haven’t posted for a while could give us updates..

Edited December 24, 2020 by Pottering About

[MrFlibble_is_very_cross]

Hello to you all, and thank you. Hope you all had a great holidays.

My thread is still locked, I got only vague reasons why and moderators are no help so this is probably my last update on this site.

Christmas went OK, I got sick few days before so we decided to not go to my parents, just as precaution. It was probably just a 3 day flu, but I wanted to be sure.

So we ultimately spent christmas in here, just 4 of us watching tv and playing games. Kids were so happy, it was great.

You are probably wondering what's the situation with me and my wife. Well, no idea honestly. We speak to each other, she's overly affectionate and goes out of her way to make my life easier, but we still have no physical contact and we sleep in different rooms. We also almost kissed few days back (too much wine) and it ended with tears and awkward silence until we went to bed. Other than this incident she's very respectful of my boundaries and is doing all the right things, but I am still not ready to put it all behind. We are both having IC tomorrow afternoon so we will see how that goes. Hope it helps.

 

The only other update worth mentioning is that SH's ex let it all out on Christmas day and SH ended up in hospital few days later. Looks like one of the husbands had his suspicions before and knew exactly who SH is and where to find him. I hope he won't get into much trouble, but it's great to have some proxy revenge.

Again, thank you all for your help and live long and prosper.

Mr.  Flibble out. 

[Mrin]

1 hour ago, MrFlibble_is_very_cross said:

Again, thank you all for your help and live long and prosper.

Mr.  Flibble out. 

Epic close! 

Peace and long life.

[Narie]

5 hours ago, MrFlibble_is_very_cross said:

Hello to you all, and thank you. Hope you all had a great holidays.

My thread is still locked, I got only vague reasons why and moderators are no help so this is probably my last update on this site.

Christmas went OK, I got sick few days before so we decided to not go to my parents, just as precaution. It was probably just a 3 day flu, but I wanted to be sure.

So we ultimately spent christmas in here, just 4 of us watching tv and playing games. Kids were so happy, it was great.

You are probably wondering what's the situation with me and my wife. Well, no idea honestly. We speak to each other, she's overly affectionate and goes out of her way to make my life easier, but we still have no physical contact and we sleep in different rooms. We also almost kissed few days back (too much wine) and it ended with tears and awkward silence until we went to bed. Other than this incident she's very respectful of my boundaries and is doing all the right things, but I am still not ready to put it all behind. We are both having IC tomorrow afternoon so we will see how that goes. Hope it helps.

 

The only other update worth mentioning is that SH's ex let it all out on Christmas day and SH ended up in hospital few days later. Looks like one of the husbands had his suspicions before and knew exactly who SH is and where to find him. I hope he won't get into much trouble, but it's great to have some proxy revenge.

Again, thank you all for your help and live long and prosper.

Mr.  Flibble out. 

Thanks for the update.  I have been wondering how it goes for you. And I am glad you got a proxy revenge. 

You could always make a new thread if ever you still want to talk. Sometimes it helps to write on forums.

Merry Christmas to you.

[Pottering About]

Happy New Year MrFibble, hoping this coming year brings you peace, love and understanding to you and yours. 
 

 

[MickeyBill]

Goodnight and good luck Mr Flibble.

2021 will be better!

[usa1ah]

Mr Flibble is now on SI. 

[MrFlibble_is_very_cross]

Yes, I moved to SI. Don't think my thread will ever be open again (it's been more than a month now, tell me about temporarily huh?) so I am closing my account here.

To anyone wondering how we are doing who isn't active on SI - we are divorcing, my wife is moving out and we want to try again from the start. No idea what the future will bring, but I am slightly optimistic.

Thank you all and I wish you luck.

[mark clemson]

GL, Mr. Flibble!

[Harry Korsnes]

4 hours ago, MrFlibble_is_very_cross said:

Yes, I moved to SI. Don't think my thread will ever be open again (it's been more than a month now, tell me about temporarily huh?) so I am closing my account here.

To anyone wondering how we are doing who isn't active on SI - we are divorcing, my wife is moving out and we want to try again from the start. No idea what the future will bring, but I am slightly optimistic.

Thank you all and I wish you luck.

Wish all the best 😀

[Pottering About]

Hi, good luck MrFlibble. SI?

[hajk]

@Pottering About SI -  Surviving Infidelity forum

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GL brother 

One day at a time. 
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[hajk]

@MrFlibble_is_very_cross Best wishes on your family!

[Wiseman2]

17 hours ago, MrFlibble_is_very_cross said:

 - we are divorcing and we want to try again from the start. 

Why go through the hassle of divorce if you want to start over? You'll do better on SI. Good luck.