Johnson1 Posted December 30, 2020 Share Posted December 30, 2020 Today is my birthday and my fiance hasn't made any mention of it to me before we left for work. All my friends on fb have including her own mother. She was on fb this morning and I guess didn't take notice of it (not that she should need fb to remind her). What should I do if she just lets the day pass by without noticing? Her and I do have our problems and we're talking with a counselor. I didn't forget her birthday. Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted December 30, 2020 Share Posted December 30, 2020 Try not to think too much about it until tomorrow, don't anticipate problems. Being upset about things that might not actually be the reality is a bad way to spend your day any day, but especially on your birthday. She may have something planned for tonight, and she might have thought "pretending" she didn't remember about it this morning would make the surprise nicer (I've seen stupid scenarios like that on tv a million times). If she does nothing, then tomorrow you can start deciding what you want to do about it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted December 31, 2020 Share Posted December 31, 2020 How is she with remembering things? I have always announced my birthday a week ahead! I circle in red the day on my fridge calendar. I make little songs saying It's my birthday next Monday 🎶, I make suggestions what I would like for gifts, all this in a fun and light way. I do not wait in silence to check if my loved ones will remember, I don't set them up to disappoint me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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