inuss2020 Posted January 1, 2021 Share Posted January 1, 2021 hey everybody ! love is a very confused feeling... when you love someone you don't really know when, how and why. have you ever heard of someone who loved another person and then they feel like love disappeared but after a period of time they start to feel it again, they renew their old love.. in my opinion it can be possible.what about you all ? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 1, 2021 Share Posted January 1, 2021 57 minutes ago, inuss2020 said: have you ever heard of someone who loved another person and then they feel like love disappeared but after a period of time they start to feel it again, they renew their old love.. Once someone breaks up with you, they already know you, the excitement of new dating has passed and most likely there were incompatibilities. It's important not to continue hanging out with your bf as "friends" if you really wish for more. Also do not feel pressure to have sex, if you're not ready. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 1, 2021 Share Posted January 1, 2021 It is possible but it won't happen with your BF He never loved you, not in the forever sense. You are the girl he dated briefly, not the love of his life. Let him go for your own sanity. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author inuss2020 Posted January 1, 2021 Author Share Posted January 1, 2021 56 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: It is possible but it won't happen with your BF He never loved you, not in the forever sense. You are the girl he dated briefly, not the love of his life. Let him go for your own sanity. no he loved me I'm pretty sure. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 2, 2021 Share Posted January 2, 2021 If you say so. What I see is a boy you have been "dating" for 10 months but never saw because of the Covid lockdowns. At this point he hasn't texted you for 5 days & you gave him permission to stop texting because you are "on a break." He told you he gets easily bored with people. In reality he's at best a serial monogamist who likes the initial romance of it all but who can't / won't commit. In a conventional world you two would have been broken up before the end of the semester last Spring -- a relationship would have barely lasted 10 weeks. That is the type he is. By the time he graduates, works for a while & is then ready to settle down he will have gone through dozens of other girls. It's called being a player. I am sorry to be blunt & I'm sure it sounds cruel to you but I don't want you sitting around, waiting, hoping & wasting your time holding out a false dream that will never be the fairy-tale you want. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted January 5, 2021 Share Posted January 5, 2021 (edited) On 1/1/2021 at 4:20 AM, inuss2020 said: have you ever heard of someone who loved another person and then they feel like love disappeared but after a period of time they start to feel it again, they renew their old love.. Seems to happen to men a lot after dumping their girlfriends feeling they don't love them anymore, but then she starts seriously dating another man, and suddenly his love is renewed, he begins feeling regret and becomes obsessed with getting back together. Could be years in between. I question whether it's truly love they feel or their ego not being able to handle their ex being with another man. I read stories like this a lot. On here and other forums and also IRL. Strange phenomenon. But yes I suppose it can happen. EDIT: If you're asking will your boyfriend ever love you again and return, doubtful. Edited January 5, 2021 by poppyfields 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted January 6, 2021 Share Posted January 6, 2021 (edited) It’s usually a trick of the mind. With two of my exes, I distinctly remember regaining interest in them after I found out that they had moved on with someone else. I felt I had fallen back in love too. When I went and got them back, it did not last long before I wasn’t happy again. It’s unfortunate too because I wasted their time and might have ruined something they could’ve had with those girls. But I didn’t know because I hadn’t had that experience before. On reflection, my interest coming back was an illusion caused by the fact I had been removed from what initially caused me to lose interest/break up mixed with my ego drive of getting him back from another/not being able to have them anymore. It was not love. Edited January 6, 2021 by Shortskirtslonglashes Link to post Share on other sites
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