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[princess]

I am a little confused, this guy Ive known for 9 months now, suddenly will not call me unless I call him, and I dont know why. If I call him which is not all the time he usually calls me back, but he dont call me like he use to. When Im talking to him, hell say I'll call you later, I mean give me a call later, Whats up with that?

[Tony T]

It sounds to me like this thing has slipped into a pretty one sided situation but I don't know all the facts.

 

Sometimes guys who are insecure or unsure where they stand will leave it up to the lady to call to be sure the lady indeed wants to talk to them.

 

Have a talk with him and let him know you don't participate in one-sided friendships or relationships. Let him know that you expect him to do at least half of the calling. If you are in a dating relationship, let him know you expect him to initiate the majority of the calls.

 

If you don't hear from him again, don't call him. It's his way of sending you a message. Be smart enough to get that message and move on.