LivingWaterPlease Posted January 14, 2021 Share Posted January 14, 2021 stu1051, my hat's off to you! One thing you're doing that's right is venting, processing and looking for answers which is a whole lot better than just stuffing it and taking it out on the next woman! I don't want to mess with the momentum of the thread so will bow out! but just thought I'd throw that in there! You're getting some great listening ears and advice! Carry on, Good Man! 🙂 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author stu1051 Posted January 14, 2021 Author Share Posted January 14, 2021 2 hours ago, LivingWaterPlease said: stu1051, my hat's off to you! One thing you're doing that's right is venting, processing and looking for answers which is a whole lot better than just stuffing it and taking it out on the next woman! I don't want to mess with the momentum of the thread so will bow out! but just thought I'd throw that in there! You're getting some great listening ears and advice! Carry on, Good Man! 🙂 Thank you 😀 I appreciate it. It helped to get some advice here, so I'll try my best to understand her perspective. I'll do my best 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JayWay Posted January 15, 2021 Share Posted January 15, 2021 (edited) On 1/13/2021 at 8:23 PM, stu1051 said: It did have a massive impact on me and I trusted her when she said all those... it really is extremely painful when they just change their mind and not keep what they said. So what am I supposed to believe anymore?? Those words will always stick to me...it's something I can never forget, so I might continue to feel anger until I get better. I do feel used and played. I agree. And as I told my therapist earlier today - “I literally do not trust anything a woman says currently, yourself included, I can’t. I’ve never been part of break up this strange, bad and such.” It also come to my understanding couple days ago that few weeks prior to all this she informed me she was pregnant. It scared hell out of me. I supported her though. Anyway, now seems I’m finding out she lied about being that. She told me she miscarried. That is so sick. I’ve been in agony over that ever since she told me. I’ve felt so sick and so much pain I lost (we) lost a little baby. And it wasn’t even true???? That is cruel. Apparently, she has “issues”, is trying to “make amends on many issues”, and was “scared” I was going to end things with us. So, she lies about that. It so sick. Edited January 15, 2021 by JayWay Link to post Share on other sites
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