Author KnightPDX Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 Well shoot, as if it couldn't get any worse, apparently her roomie is kicking her out now. Usually bad things come in threes but this is just ridiculous. 😶 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 On 1/12/2021 at 11:23 PM, KnightPDX said: So long story short I have been seeing someone for about give months now. She is the type that slowly opens up. Had a really crappy end to a long term relationship and then saw a couple dudes who were losers afterwards that were mainly using her for sex. Anyways, she and I hit it off pretty well and things are good until... I mess up by being an idiot and say something that gets taken out of context on Friday. She is immediately angry and upset with me, so I back off. What did you say that was taken out of context? It's good that she's warming up to you again but not addressing the elephant in the room isn't always the best course of action. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KnightPDX Posted February 8, 2021 Author Share Posted February 8, 2021 Figured I would post a quick update. Yesterday she and I hung out hung out, like we had done so prior to our split. She pretty much told me that she is on a full hiatus from dating and romance, that she needs some genuine friends and connections right now, that she is trying to bring more positivity into her life given her situation with her father and other things that are pretty stressful these days. She did show me some messages of a few guys that were trying to get into her pants, where she is also very cold to them in response. She warmed up pretty fast yesterday. We did a bunch of stuff like hang out at the barn together, do some equine portraits of her horse and she had me ride around in the arena a little bit. Our local gyms are open and she knows I have been working out, told me to make sure I workout a few spots and she sort of hinted at what she really likes physically on a guy. We also did other things like sing some love songs together and other goofy stuff. When I took home she had me come inside her place briefly to show me some of the projects she has been working on. All in all, it was really good hanging out with her again. This morning she sent me a couple dirty memes which she hadn't done since our issues began. Though we hadn't been to the barn together or even had me over since these issues began too. The one negative was that she did express a concern that I would dip out on her life eventually. When I asked why, she said that she thinks I will do it when I find a woman which was sort of odd talk to me since she knows I am not looking and more focused on myself. Although I don't know what the future holds for us in particular at this point its nice that she has warmed up a little bit compared to how she has been over the last month. I'm just taking life day by day and focusing a bit on myself but enjoying whatever time I do get to share with her as well as whatever kind of support she trusts me with giving her. Time will tell but its great getting to see her because we are the type of people that when together, we really never run out of things to do. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 Dude, this woman is using you to boost her ego. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author KnightPDX Posted February 14, 2021 Author Share Posted February 14, 2021 On 2/7/2021 at 11:34 PM, ExpatInItaly said: Dude, this woman is using you to boost her ego. I don't know about that honestly since she doesn't really have any ego at all. She has taken a sudden interest in where I am and what I am doing as well lately. I mean if she asks I got no problem sharing but I don't spend my day filling her in with my day to day activities. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted February 14, 2021 Share Posted February 14, 2021 She's downgraded you to "friend". Are you OK continuing in this manner? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 14, 2021 Share Posted February 14, 2021 4 hours ago, KnightPDX said: I don't know about that honestly since she doesn't really have any ego at all. Yeah, exactly. She's looking to men to supply it for her. Link to post Share on other sites
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