Hot mama17 Posted January 21, 2021 Share Posted January 21, 2021 (edited) I've been in a new relationship and I thought things were going great. I feel like my man is not interested in me anymore. I'll have sex with him and a little later I feel him jacking off in bed. Does that mean he's not happy or just really horny. He tells me he needs to pleasure himself sometimes so I appreciate the honesty. My other question is how many men are in a relationship but comment, like or love other women's pics on fb? Is this normal. I confronted my man and he told me he has lots of women friends and he will talk, he assured me it's nothing inappropriate, should I believe him? Is this right or do men just do this? One last question, I told my boyfriend I'm falling in love with him and he just told me that he isn't there yet. Does that mean he's not interested, won't be, or maybe he's just really honest and isn't there yet but will be? Edited January 21, 2021 by Hot mama17 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 21, 2021 Share Posted January 21, 2021 1 hour ago, Hot mama17 said: . I feel like my man is not interested in me anymore. I told my boyfriend I'm falling in love with him and he just told me that he isn't there yet. Sorry to hear that. How long have you been dating? Unfortunately the best recourse may be cutting your losses. In addition to sexual incompatibilities already, he's lukewarm about you. You don't need lukewarm bodies in your bed. That's almost as bad as a dead body in your bed. Basically useless. Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted January 21, 2021 Share Posted January 21, 2021 8 hours ago, Hot mama17 said: Does that mean he's not interested, won't be, or maybe he's just really honest and isn't there yet but will be? Take him at his word, he doesn't return the feeling now. Do NOT assume he will in the future either. I wouldn't feel good about any of the things that you posted about him either, so I would at the very least pull back a little and reconsider whether being in this relationship - the way it is right now - is ok with you. Be honest with yourself. Don't ignore your doubts and never hang on hoping things will change. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 21, 2021 Share Posted January 21, 2021 You said this is a new relationship and at this stage he should be raring to have sex with you instead of masturbating. That coupled with him saying 'he isn't there yet' when you told him you were in love with him. Pace yourself so you don't get hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
dramafreezone Posted January 22, 2021 Share Posted January 22, 2021 16 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Sorry to hear that. How long have you been dating? Unfortunately the best recourse may be cutting your losses. In addition to sexual incompatibilities already, he's lukewarm about you. You don't need lukewarm bodies in your bed. That's almost as bad as a dead body in your bed. Basically useless. Sounds drastic. I think she could have an honest, non-judgemental conversation about their sex life and ask him if he has some things that he would like to do. Maybe he likes some things sexually that he's not comfortable sharing. Link to post Share on other sites
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