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Would you let someone have sex with your wife for $1 million?

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Clockwork Established Member

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Yeah okay I re-watched Indecent Proposal. Been a long time. By the way, great movie just as I remembered. It got me thinking. Would you do it? 

Or would you let someone go to 2nd base or 3rd base with your wife for less money? Or would you not consider it at all? 

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A million dollars isn't that much these days. I’d say no. 

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Absolutely not.

I'd feel really weird about negotiating someone else's consent and boundaries anyway, let alone for monetary gain. But, ethics of that aside, I know I wouldn't be able to cope with my partner being with someone else and I'd just be a really miserable millionaire going through a relationship breakdown.

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Wiseman2 Established Member

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Would your wife be willing?

 

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We've been swingers, and have had an open relationship for 2 decades.  We've both had recreational sex with others many times.  I would neither promote doing it nor oppose it.  It would be entirely her choice and I'd be fine with it.

And I think the question as posed is offensive.  Why would I be the one letting someone do this, as if my wife is property, or I'm pimping her out?  If someone asked me this, I'd say talk to her as it's her body and her choice.

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1 hour ago, central said:

And I think the question as posed is offensive.  Why would I be the one letting someone do this, as if my wife is property, or I'm pimping her out?  If someone asked me this, I'd say talk to her as it's her body and her choice.

I think it's a given that the woman would have to be onboard. It's really not relevant to the question which is a question that pertains specifically to the husbands moral values, or whatever you want to call it.

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I have no control over who my wife chooses to have sex with. It is not my place to let someone have sex with my wife, that is entirely up to her to decide.

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I'm not sure I could truly envision my acceptance/not acceptance unless actually in the situation. I *think* if it was one time, STD-tested, and (of course) my wife was ok with it, I might be ok with it. She and I could then pick up with intimacy again say a month later after I'd "gotten over" my emotional distaste for what occurred.

That said, I don't think my wife would have acceptance/any interest in it, so it's most likely a moot point.

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Xxxxxx

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47 minutes ago, Shortskirtslonglashes said:

Xxxxxx

It doesn't have to resort to that level.

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A million dollars? Absolutely! I think I could get over it while admiring my Ilve Majestic range and my copper range hood. (I asked my husband and he confirmed it'd be worth it.)

Seriously though...I can't imagine having an issue if it was just a physical transaction. If some amount of emotional connection was involved then no, no way, not ever. But sex? Sure.

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1 minute ago, lana-banana said:

A million dollars? Absolutely!

Would it help sweeten the deal if he looked like Robert Redford? 😂

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52 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Would it help sweeten the deal if he looked like Robert Redford? 😂

For a million dollars he could look like Robert deNiro. Eyes on the prize!

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No way in hell would I agree to let my wife whore herself for any amount of money. My wife and I married in a sacred ceremony to forsake all others. Money and a stray affair would ruin that.

 

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Nobody is going to give me a million dollars for my dog, er, I mean my wife 😄

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Money isn't everything. I'd die for my wife, she's not f***ing anyone else for any amount of money. My family is worth more than money. 

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5 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Would it help sweeten the deal if he looked like Robert Redford? 😂

Robert Redford in 1990.

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On 1/27/2021 at 9:28 PM, Western200 said:

A million dollars isn't that much these days. I’d say no. 

What about with your sister-in-law for a million? I'm sorry I couldn't resist. lol

Just kidding.

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1,000 dollars ha ha

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Clockwork Established Member

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On 1/28/2021 at 7:05 AM, central said:

We've been swingers, and have had an open relationship for 2 decades.  We've both had recreational sex with others many times.  I would neither promote doing it nor oppose it.  It would be entirely her choice and I'd be fine with it.

And I think the question as posed is offensive.  Why would I be the one letting someone do this, as if my wife is property, or I'm pimping her out?  If someone asked me this, I'd say talk to her as it's her body and her choice.

I thought it was pretty self explanatory that your wife is in agreement with this agreement. Or more importantly that you both are. 

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On 1/28/2021 at 8:48 AM, 5x5 said:

I have no control over who my wife chooses to have sex with. It is not my place to let someone have sex with my wife, that is entirely up to her to decide.

For the sake of your marriage, I sincerely hope you have a say in it, as does she vice-versa. 

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On 1/28/2021 at 2:57 PM, lana-banana said:

A million dollars? Absolutely! I think I could get over it while admiring my Ilve Majestic range and my copper range hood. (I asked my husband and he confirmed it'd be worth it.)

Seriously though...I can't imagine having an issue if it was just a physical transaction. If some amount of emotional connection was involved then no, no way, not ever. But sex? Sure.

That's exactly what Woody Harrelson and Demi Moore's character figured.........................

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I think that would be the wife’s decision to make. I don’t think a husband can tell his wife to do it or not. 
 

If my wife was to do it, at least I would get half in the divorce. 

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With your argument about if she can or not is completely on the wife. Husbands have been roasted alive on this forum for using the phrase “I told my wife she couldn’t”. 
 

It’s each individual’s choice who they sleep with, the partner has no say in it.
 

It’s each individual’s choice to be faithful in a relationship, the partner has no say in that either. 

 

 

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8 hours ago, Clockwork said:

For the sake of your marriage, I sincerely hope you have a say in it, as does she vice-versa. 

I hope not.

My wife and I are married. That doesn’t mean we have abandoned our autonomy or own each other as property.

So it is entirely up to my wife, who she chooses to have sex with or not. Just as it is also entirely up to me, who I choose to have sex with or otherwise.

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