Anyone Know, How to know LDR cheating ?

[MihiranCG]

There is common myth, before start a LDR everyone says Long distance relationship, Not for success. What most people say,  "When the absence of physical meetings partners not attracting to each others, call over the phone not success as much in good way". If it's true, is there any why to know Is he/she cheating from a long distance. Is cheating is possible from long distance?

( Highly appreciate if you can share your ideas & experience already )

 

[Fox Sake]

There’s no way to know without solid or reasonably questionable proof. Your instinct can usually be spot on if it’s proven itself time and again in different ways and situations. 

All you can go on is their behaviour. You want consistency, with open and honest communication from both sides. Without them it’s very hard to make things work. 

If it’s changed and their interest and attention to you is waning , then something is going on. Doesn’t have to be cheating. 
No one will drag out a LDR if they don’t want to , remember that. It’s one of the easiest things to check out of. 

my related experience- An ex once cheated in an LDR, the consistency stopped and behaviour changed without wanting to talk about anything. 

It’s very very hard to get rid of ideas of a partner being unfaithful if you’re already suspecting it. It’s a very slippery slope, that most of the time will eat away and destroy the relationship through insecurities 

Edited January 30, 2021 by Fox Sake
Stupid typo

[MihiranCG]

"No one will drag out a LDR if they don’t want to",    

That's the Word, mate!!..  But what it's happen if separate from a very long distance, For 3 to 5 years. How hard it's to hold same mind set?, I have one experience, one of my friend move for higher studies without girl, For Msc nearly 4years. After 1 n half year, I heard they separate officially. Girls, said she can't without him & should return, He's not seems like early before leaving, Cheating not only around another girl.. blah blaa etc.

But when i asked What happen from Boy, Said He's too much busy with his research and part times for extra so lack of free time to talk. When he said same to Girl, She didn't ready to accept.

I those two never wanted to separate, But finally thing happen they never dreamed.

[josedelamuerte]

4 hours ago, Fox Sake said:

my related experience- An ex once cheated in an LDR, the consistency stopped and behaviour changed without wanting to talk about anything.

I don't understand most of your post, but I will respond to the title:

You can't know if they're cheating, but you do know what their level of interest is. You know this instinctively. From the response time, to the frequency of communication, to how short they are with you. When they stop reciprocating - you feel it. Trust your instincts. I'm guessing that's what brought you here.

 

[Pumaza]

Best is to do LDR if its temporary.And with plans to be in real soon.

Just doing LDR, unlimited.....can get you hurt badly.Specially if you all in and the other person is not.

Relationships is like a flower that needs water, love, attention,also you need to see eachother,,expirience eachother to know the person, and at some level touch a hug a kiss.

LDR all you got is your phone to try to connect.

Someone can easily fool you. And fall for someone that they do see daily and expirience in reallife. 

Only if they tell you, you can know.Or when there is less texting,calling may be a reason that they over it.

 

[d0nnivain]

Of course someone can & many do cheat in an LDR.  If you made promises to be faithful & exclusive but are not, that is cheating.

You assess it by analyzing patterns of contact, availability etc.