misspalmy Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 Why do Marry men want a single woman to get pregnant? I’m on my 3nd child to him. He says he loves he’s carrying his babies. His wife knows about the other two kids. She choose to say knowing I told her I won’t back off given another chance Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 (edited) I somehow doubt this is typical but, for whatever reason, seems be a thing with your MM specifically. At least the pregnancy part. Edited January 30, 2021 by mark clemson Link to post Share on other sites
Crazelnut Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 No, not typical. Most MM don't want to have kids with the OW. Your situation is weird and very dysfunctional. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 17 hours ago, misspalmy said: I’m on my 3nd child to him. His wife knows about the other two kids. Does he pay child support for all three? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author misspalmy Posted January 30, 2021 Author Share Posted January 30, 2021 19 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Does he pay child support for all three? Only one child 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author misspalmy Posted January 30, 2021 Author Share Posted January 30, 2021 7 hours ago, d0nnivain said: Yuck. Did you learn nothing from your 1st pregnancy? Your 3rd child from your MM. What a mess I try my best to keep away from him. He’s like a drug Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 If you haven’t figured this out by the third child... 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Author misspalmy Posted January 31, 2021 Author Share Posted January 31, 2021 (edited) On 1/30/2021 at 2:40 PM, Pumaza said: [redacted] She’s the one choosing to stay. Not like she new he wasn’t a cheater. She cheated on her ex husband and he cheated on his ex wife with her. Edited February 2, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Personal attack 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author misspalmy Posted January 31, 2021 Author Share Posted January 31, 2021 2 hours ago, Amethyst68 said: You seem to think you are somehow morally superior to the wife in this situation. You're not, it's messed up, especially for ALL the children involved. At least her children are provided for. Don't you have children with his brother as well? Yeah but he lied to me when I met him Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, misspalmy said: She’s the one choosing to stay. Not like she new he wasn’t a cheater. She cheated on her ex husband and he cheated on his ex wife with her. None of this makes the situation sound any better... Edited January 31, 2021 by BaileyB 4 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 (edited) 7 hours ago, misspalmy said: Yeah but he lied to me when I met him And you proceeded to have three kids with them thereafter, no? You're just as bad as he is, MissP. Most married men do not want their mistresses to get pregnant. You can see that even this married man is not that excited about if he's not paying child support for 2 of the 3 kids. He doesn't "love" you procreating with him; he just doesn't give a crap whether it happens or not. Those poor kids. Edited January 31, 2021 by ExpatInItaly 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Lorryborry Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 I'd recommend a therapist for you. Dont think you will get enough support from here alone. Try to make wiser decisions going forward 3 Link to post Share on other sites
snowboy91 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 On 1/30/2021 at 3:31 PM, misspalmy said: Why do Marry men want a single woman to get pregnant? I’m on my 3nd child to him. As a general rule, they don't. Why do you think they do? If it's just because of the thread title, he either assumed you were on birth control at the start, or he is taking virtually no responsibility for his actions. On 1/30/2021 at 3:31 PM, misspalmy said: His wife knows about the other two kids. She choose to say knowing I told her I won’t back off given another chance And you chose a married man in the first place. 9 hours ago, misspalmy said: She’s the one choosing to stay. Not like she new he wasn’t a cheater. She cheated on her ex husband and he cheated on his ex wife with her. And that makes it OK for him to cheat on you? Or for you to be involved with him? Between your posts and the thread title, I'm getting the feeling you think you have no control over the situation with this man, and that said situation is the result of everyone else's actions. You had full control of this from the start... and you have full control over what happens from here. My question is now: what do you want from here? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 More kids won't make him choose you. More kids may make you mare unattractive to him in reality. If he is not paying, then who is paying for these kids? I doubt with all these very young kids you can go out and work full time to make a decent wage... 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 14 hours ago, misspalmy said: Only one child You need to get to the courts and file on behalf of these children. It's Your responsibility to procure the financial support these children are entitled to regardless of who the father is. Do your duty as a parent. Hopefully you are not putting fatherless children on the welfare role to hang on to a man or coerce him to leave his wife. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 I don't even know where to begin with this! I think the question you should be asking yourself is, "why would I, the other woman, have unprotected sex with this man, resulting in becoming pregnant with three of his children?" 5 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 3 minutes ago, Trail Blazer said: I think the question you should be asking yourself is, "why would I, the other woman, have unprotected sex with this man, resulting in becoming pregnant with three of his children?" Plus two other children with her other MM, who is this MM's brother... 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 (edited) He apparently has a pregnancy fetish. And she apparently believes that she has the upper hand on the wife if she is pregnant with his child. But, it hasn’t changed anything. He has not left his wife. And OP is left with three children to raise on her own... making her indeed, less attractive to any man. If I was the wife, I would find a certain satisfaction here... Edited January 31, 2021 by BaileyB 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 3 minutes ago, BaileyB said: And OP is left with three children to raise on her own... 5 children... 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Starswillshine Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 What is it with your MM's family? What are you trying to prove with this family. Im curious to what their mom thinks? The grandma to your children to both her sons.... Why do you want to keep having kids with this man? Have unprotected sex with this man? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 (edited) 22 hours ago, misspalmy said: I try my best to keep away from him. Actually, while you are procuring child support for your/his children, set up a custody and visitation schedule. The kids should get to know their father, half-siblings and step mother. Surely she'll be delighted to have them every other weekend, no? Have the courts address both of them in the child support/custody hearing. As you are well aware married couples are a financial and legal unit, so the child support will come out of their joint assets. If he quits his job, refuses to pay, etc. the courts will go after her. So in theory, Mr Unzipped's wife could end up paying for his 3 kids. Edited January 31, 2021 by Wiseman2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Amethyst68 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: Actually, while you are procuring child support for your/his children, set up a custody and visitation schedule. The kids should get to know their father, half-siblings and step mother. Surely she'll be delighted to have them every other weekend, no? Have the courts address both of them in the child support/custody hearing. As you are well aware married couples are a financial and legal unit, so the child support will come out of their joint assets. If he quits his job, refuses to pay, etc. the courts will go after her. So in theory, Mr Unzipped's wife could end up paying for his 3 kids. Really? So it's the wife's fault the OP keeps having unprotected sex with her husband. It's 2021 the OP can go get contraceptives herself! The OP's other threads have shown she's no victim. I can't help but believe this pregnancy was a conscious choice on her behalf. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author misspalmy Posted January 31, 2021 Author Share Posted January 31, 2021 (edited) 2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Actually, while you are procuring child support for your/his children, set up a custody and visitation schedule. The kids should get to know their father, half-siblings and step mother. Surely she'll be delighted to have them every other weekend, no? Have the courts address both of them in the child support/custody hearing. As you are well aware married couples are a financial and legal unit, so the child support will come out of their joint assets. If he quits his job, refuses to pay, etc. the courts will go after her. So in theory, Mr Unzipped's wife could end up paying for his 3 kids. Not over here. It’s base on the two parent income not other partners. He sees his sons. She look after one son in lockdown. Edited January 31, 2021 by misspalmy Link to post Share on other sites
Author misspalmy Posted January 31, 2021 Author Share Posted January 31, 2021 (edited) 15 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: And you proceeded to have three kids with them thereafter, no? You're just as bad as he is, MissP. Most married men do not want their mistresses to get pregnant. You can see that even this married man is not that excited about if he's not paying child support for 2 of the 3 kids. He doesn't "love" you procreating with him; he just doesn't give a crap whether it happens or not. Those poor kids. He wanted me pregnant. I told him I wasn’t on anything. He wanted to be father again. Maybe he just wants be a dad?? Edited January 31, 2021 by misspalmy He not I Link to post Share on other sites
snowboy91 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 2 minutes ago, misspalmy said: He wanted me pregnant. Did you want to be pregnant? Link to post Share on other sites
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