Elu Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Hello All of Loveshack, Its 4:00am in the morning and I currently can't sleep very well. Reason being? My girlfriend and I broke up tonight and I wanted a community that I can be fully transparent to and share my feelings and experience. This may be a very long read and I don't blame you guys for clicking the back button, just wanted yall to know I appreciate each and every one of you guys who took the time to read this. I'm going to tell you guys the reasons and I will try to be as unbias as possible. Thanks again for reading and showing me the support when I need it the most (,:The Beginning My ex and I met very platonically.... we were friends at first and began to gain feelings for each other as we hung out more and more. It really all started with my asking for her number. I realized I started feeling for her when I found out her family values and personality aligned with mine. She was sweet, caring to others, and honestly just a joy to spend time with. We could talk about the most random topics and I was 100% there for this girl. She also started getting feelings for me as our conversations could reach the stars. Talking hours and hours about what our favorite childhood candy was, what movies we liked, even to stories about past sexual experiences, embarrassing stories, and hidden life secrets. I fell in love with her.. just as she did with me. It was great. I felt like she was the one and every one of her friends and family supported our relationship to the fullest. However, there was one red flag that I did know about since the beginning. First, she's quite young, trying to graduate from school and works a part-time job. Yes. I'm about to hear about all the comments on how young this relationship is... but everything we felt was real and our maturity levels are quite high for our age. I'm 25 and she is 23. I have my own business which is doing quite well and we've both been through our fair share of relationships. I have been in 2 long-term relationships before her. She on the other hand, has never been in a relationship past 2 months. This was the red flag that I was talking about, but I feel that its safe to say that relationships are different for everyone. You could go through a plethora of short-term relationships and all of a sudden.... find the one. This was just a little back story on how our relationship was for the first year and a half.Suspicion Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 How long were you dating? What was the breakup about? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Elu Posted January 31, 2021 Author Share Posted January 31, 2021 To anyone who sees this... I mistakenly published this too early. Please look at my most recent post for the full story 🙂 Link to post Share on other sites
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