User2896 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 I am confused!! I have been with my current partner for almost 2 years now. We bought our first house together too. But, I still think about my ex, a lot. So much so, I got back in contact with him as I wanted to know what he was up to, how he was doing etc. We spent the full day the other day reminiscing about our relationship, and general chit chat, he's moved away down the other side of the country temporarily for some job training, but it could become permanent. His training means we won't be able to talk much so I know I won't be able to speak to him for another couple weeks now. We both admitted me think about each other and miss each other. He said he was just used to the idea that it'll always be that way since we were so close in our relationship. I broke up with him, because of his moodiness. It kinda pushed me away. He admitted the other day that he was at fault and he contributed to most our problems. I just don't even know what to begin to think. I've told myself to leave the ball in his court and in a couple weeks time when he can contact again, I will see if he does. If not I know where I stand. But also I know he is respectful to my current relationship so I don't know if he will message when he can, because of my current boyfriend. I don't know whether to text him or what. I've been picturing my life with him again, and thinking do I just want it because I can't really have it? I want to text him and just tell him how I feel, but if he gets this job, I can't be with him, I couldn't do long distance. I don't know if I am being totally nieve thinking we could ever go back there? But I just want to know if he is thinking about me every day at the min, like I am thinking about him. I even keep looking at old pics if us. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 (edited) I don't know if you are still in love with your EX. You say he's respectful of your present relationship. Unfortunately YOU are not. It's wholly inappropriate for you to be chasing after this EX. Your deliberate actions to stay in touch with him are undermining your present relationship. Now you have a bigger problem: how are you going to get out from under the mortgage you have on your new house with your BF you clearly don't love enough to be fully committed to? Edited February 2, 2021 by d0nnivain 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 Perhaps you need to do some reflecting. Cheating is not a good thing, Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 Sorry but you aren’t relationship material at this time. I’d be looking at alternatives of letting the BF go. Homes are selling well right now. It’s the perfect time. This will just get stickier the longer you stay. Link to post Share on other sites
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