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Ex came with flowers, said he hasn't forgotten me, then I saw him on Tinder


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When a man loves someone, it's a feat. MOST men don't easily put their hearts on the line.....so when a man sees the woman he cares for looking for someone else, it's like an arrow to the heart. It sounds like he's just looking for a distraction. It sounds like his desire to get you back is sincere. If you 2 got back together, he'd probably forget about whatever dating apps he's on

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9 hours ago, basil67 said:

My idea is kind of inspired by the Pina Colada song, but why not swipe right on his dating profile and mention that you can speak French and are looking for your Napolean?

Ha! I was thinking the same thing

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22 hours ago, Mrin said:

Could be three things:

1) his Tinder profile was talking to you. Or designed to talk to you in a good way. Wants to rekindle

2) he's just being spiteful because you're on Tinder so he wrote a profile that would get under your skin

3) he is recycling good lines to find someone else

 

Which one of those stories feels most right to you based on his actions and personality?

He stopped liking my pictures or checking my stories, so I believe he is actually done for good, that is why he also installed Tinder.

And wrote all these things there just to be a bit spiteful in case I see it...

 

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1 hour ago, Glx said:

He stopped liking my pictures or checking my stories, so I believe he is actually done for good, that is why he also installed Tinder.

And wrote all these things there just to be a bit spiteful in case I see it...

 

Do you acknowledge that you have tendencies to paranoia, to assuming without asking, to over-reacting, to jumping to conclusion without having checked the facts?

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6 hours ago, Glx said:

He stopped liking my pictures or checking my stories, so I believe he is actually done for good, that is why he also installed Tinder.

And wrote all these things there just to be a bit spiteful in case I see it...

Yes, it's entirely possible.  Or that he has no imagination of his own and stole your story to attract other women.

Thing is though, there are no guarantees either way.   If you want to have another try, reach out.  If you think he's being spiteful, block him.   

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