My boyfriend has pictures I took of him on a Tinder profile: I feel so hurt and pained

[ExpatInItaly]

15 hours ago, smackie9 said:

You had suspected something because his behavior is off...gosh running to his car to talk on the phone! And you see he used YOUR photos that you took to update his active dating profile...there is nothing left to do but tell him you have known about it, and are booting him to the curb.

Yes, exactly. 

There is nothing to discuss here. If you are an exclusive couple, there is no valid reason to update your Tinder profile other than shopping for a replacement. Sorry OP, but you've just discovered he's not invested in you the way you are in him. What sort of conversation is going to make that better? 

The rest is just noise and silly excuses.