Author anon77777 Posted April 5, 2021 Author Share Posted April 5, 2021 On 3/31/2021 at 7:56 PM, d0nnivain said: I hate to break it to you but NC & getting your stuff back are mutually exclusive. You have to communicate to arrange the transfer. Since this thread was started almost 2 months ago, how can you be sure that she hasn't disposed of your stuff already? Stop dragging your feet on this issue. It may already be too late. I just spoke to her mother about getting those stuff back and her mother said that they are still on her bed and she is still hugging them to sleep. Haha I don't get what is she doing. Anyway, I will be taking everything back coming weekend. She is asking me to communicate with her mother directly instead of her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author anon77777 Posted April 5, 2021 Author Share Posted April 5, 2021 (edited) Also to note, I have contacted her a few times previously to try to get them back, but she just ignore my messages, leaving them on seen. Like Marc said, she is just being childish. Hence this time I contacted her mother instead. Edited April 5, 2021 by anon77777 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted April 5, 2021 Share Posted April 5, 2021 I'm glad that you're getting your things sorted out and that her mother is assisting. Regarding the friends, whether it be breakup or divorce, the friends usually get split like assets. It's so common that it's not even a spoken thing - it just happens. Usually, they go with the person who was their friend first - or if they literally met you both at the same time, they will choose the partner who they feel more connected to. It can be especially difficult if the friendship group consists of a group who were all the ex's friends to start with and all are lost in the split. I've had to rebuild friend groups after a split for this reason. It's really tough having both a breakup and having to rebuild friend groups. Hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
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