Tomuchlove Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 I met my wife in 96 we had our first son in 99 we got married in 2000 we had our second son in 2001 and we still together in 2021. Now moral of my story I met her in 96 a month later I approached her about sex and she shot me down and said I disrespected her so I apologise and never came at her like that no more. But during the months that past she was sleeping with someone else even caught a desease. I was a stand out football player even got an scholarship to play for alabama. I wrote poems to her letters to her and even songs. I gave her everything she wanted but I guess it was never enough. The thing is we've been together for 24 years and I was the only one trying and fighting for the relationship. She has cheated on me time after time. And I always asked her why and she always says she don't know. She always tells me she loves me and she care. But I'm like really really how and when did you start loving me? But at this point in my life I'm 42 and I'm tired of trying and fighting for something that never did and never will happen. I know I should have been left but she was the love of my life. I just don't know. Link to post Share on other sites
trident_2020 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 She cheated on you because she can. Because she has no consequences, you are weak, you ask her too many questions and she has no respect for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 Her words versus her actions tell you what? Shes a serial cheater and this will always be your life. Its a choice you’re making to stay in this. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 (edited) You do know; you just wish there was another alternative. It's time to get a divorce. She will never change. Dissolve the marriage. Love your kids. Enjoy your life. Edited February 6, 2021 by d0nnivain Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 (edited) 38 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: Dissolve the marriage. Love your kids. Enjoy your life. This. She may say that she loves you, but her actions tell a different story... The writing was on the wall early in this relationship, you just didn’t read it. Divorce is not easy, but you will get through it. You may actually discover a feeling of peace and freedom that you haven’t experienced in a very long time... Good luck. Edited February 6, 2021 by BaileyB Link to post Share on other sites
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