Maryberry2015 Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 Ok so me and my boyfriend were together and lived together for 2 years, we broke up for a year and we just got back together 7 months ago. He used to text me good morning and text me through the day and had a job at the time. Now he has no job, lives an hour and a half away from me, plays video games (which im not complaining about because I do that too) and literally sleeps all day and all night. Im lucky if I even get one message from him now. I know he sleeps all day and night because he comes and picks me up and I stay at his place 4 days every month so we can spend time together. When I'm over there all he does is sleep until like 6 or 7 in the afternoon/night and we do whatever and then a few hours later he goes back to sleep. It's like I'm not even there. I'm really worried about him and he tells me he's fine, everything's fine, he's not doing anything wrong and I have nothing to worry about but I worry about every little thing. He has had drug problems in the past so I'm wondering if he's back doing drugs and that's why he's acting this way and he's just really depressed or he's losing interest in me and I'm about to lose him. Please give me y'alls advice, I love this man to death he is my first real true love and I dont wanna lose him. I dont know if I'm overreacting or if there is something I should be really worried about. Also the first time we were together he proposed to me but it didnt work out and now he was supposed to propose to me on christmas but he says he lost the ring, its somewhere at his house Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 It sounds like you realize he is still on drugs. What drugs is he addicted to? Is he dealing? How does he support himself and his habit? One day while you're hanging out at his place,the cops will come and arrest both of you. Stay away. If you are doing drugs together, get clean and sober. Leave this guy. He's bad news. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 He "lost" the ring? That is ridiculous & an obvious lie. Given how much engagement rings cost, a normal person would be ripping that house apart, turning everything upside down to find it. I don't know if he's on drugs but he is unemployed & doesn't seem to be motivated to get a new job. With Covid & lockdowns it's certainly not easy to get a new job but he seems happy to coast along on unemployment. He stays up all night playing video games because that is fun. It's possible to do that & sleep all day without being on drugs. It contributes to the problems because he's not motivated to do anything else. He's certainly not mature enough for marriage nor does he hold you in high enough esteem if on the few days you are around he can't alter his routine to spend time with you. You should be worried about why you are continuing to put up with this? He's not acting like a man who cares about you. He may be your 1st "true love" but for your sake I hope he's not your last. Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 How does he finance his life since he's unemployed? Link to post Share on other sites
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