LivingWaterPlease Posted February 19, 2021 Share Posted February 19, 2021 4 hours ago, HiCrunchy said: Soooo honestly, she might not know how yellow her teeth are really... I'd bring up teeth whitening and say ur thinking about doing it. Look at her reaction, if this is a sensitive topic then body language will give you the info you need to know. This. ^^^^^ Link to post Share on other sites
Veronica73 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 If you bring up whitening your own teeth, you might want to go into detail, like you have actually looked into it and compared differences between what dentist offices offer vs what you can get at the drugstore or online. Link to post Share on other sites
Buckeyestrong45 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 On 2/18/2021 at 5:30 PM, UsuallyConfused said: I just met a woman I've been texting with for a few weeks. I was instantly put off by how yellow her teeth were! It repulsed me inside actually. I find her physically attractive otherwise, and I like her personality so far, but I can't get past those teeth. The thought of kissing her turns me off big-time. What should I do? How can I get her to whiten or whiten/clean her teeth so I don't have to tell her I'm no longer interested? And if her teeth can't be fixed enough for me, the tempting (cowardly) thing to do is just break it off with her without saying why. But if I tell her why, it could be such help for her dating success, because I'm wondering if she's turning off all numbers of guys when they meet her. Thoughts? Please help! All you have to do is tell her that you’re shallow and that she needs to brush her teeth and brush them good. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 I don't think you should say anything or hint around. It's rude hurtful and comes off as so desperate and controlling that you have to try to fix and change people after one date? How would you like it if after one date someone started telling you or worse, passive aggressive hinting that you need to change this or fix that? Just move on. She knows what her teeth look like. If it bothers you, don't ask her out again. It's that simple. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SaraSays Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 Yellow teeth are normal teeth. Anyone disliking yellow teeth is disliking normal teeth. It's absolutely fine and dandy for anyone to decide they wouldn't date someone for whatever reason they like, but let's not kid ourselves that cosmetic dentistry in America is anything but a big business that preys upon low self-esteem and ego. Healthy teeth - crooked, yellow, and so on, assuming there's regular brushing and flossing. Unhealthy teeth - teeth subject to unnecessary cosmetic procedures, like whitening, like veneers, and so on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted February 22, 2021 Share Posted February 22, 2021 (edited) Sry. Nvm. My unrelated opinion on teeth Edited February 22, 2021 by Shortskirtslonglashes Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 22, 2021 Share Posted February 22, 2021 On 2/18/2021 at 5:30 PM, UsuallyConfused said: The thought of kissing her turns me off big-time. What should I do? Because the thought of kissing her repulses you, you have to end this. You don't really know her. There is no polite way for you to discuss her teeth or your preferences. Don't try. Simply be done. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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