Snow16 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 (edited) Hi all I have been in a relationship for 2 years . Actually it was a very complicated relationship from both sides but the main problem with me was that I suffer from depression, anxiety and I have a very low self esteem, must admit that he was from the very beginning very supportive and he was there for me 😔he was not only my bf but also my very best friend🥺. Things started getting worse cause i cant control my emotions but still in the last months we have been fighting over nothing and he says its only fault, cause I am the only problem in our relationship. He take things in a very different meaning as the one I could have said them and acc to him I am a manipulator and that I am even capable of manipulating my self to make me believe that I am innocent and that I didn’t do anything wrong. I have tried to explain to him that its not as he thinks but still in the end I am the one who is wrong abt everything and for two days ago he blocked me on all social media and said goodbye Edited February 21, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 8 minutes ago, Snow16 said: I have been in a relationship for 2 years . I suffer from depression, anxiety and I have a very low self esteem. i cant control my emotions but still in the last months we have been fighting over nothing Sorry to hear that. How old is he? How often do you see each other? What is the arguing about? Have you been seeing your physician and therapist regularly? Has there been a recent change in your medication, lifestyle or any recent stressors? What is going on with him Is he stressed out too? Do you have supportive friends and family? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Snow16 Posted February 21, 2021 Author Share Posted February 21, 2021 6 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Sorry to hear that. How old is he? How often do you see each other? What is the arguing about? Have you been seeing your physician and therapist regularly? Has there been a recent change in your medication, lifestyle or any recent stressors? What is going on with him Is he stressed out too? Do you have supportive friends and family? He is 32😔. We live in the same country but in the last past months we’ve been seeing each other only once a week, cause acc to him it was my fault since i am a stick in the mud 🤷♀️. However once he told he is depressed and he doesnt feel like it 🤦♀️(He suffer from depression too especially from a past relationship which i thought he still love her) No, I have never been to a therapist to be honest😔 my family has no idea that I suffer from depression and all the stuff Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 Just now, Snow16 said: I have never been to a therapist to be honest😔 my family has no idea that I suffer from depression and all the stuff Ok, make an appointment with a physician for a complete physical evaluation. Discuss your moods and depression. Also ask for a referral to therapist. Talk to trust friends and family in general not about your depression per se. Also make sure your life is happy. Your work/school finances, home, friends, hobbies, interests, etc. A depressed negative person whom you bicker with will only make matters worse. Take this time away from this negative guy to reflect on things and what kind of relationship you wish to have. Certainly not bickering over Whatsapp all day, no? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Snow16 Posted February 21, 2021 Author Share Posted February 21, 2021 8 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Ok, make an appointment with a physician for a complete physical evaluation. Discuss your moods and depression. Also ask for a referral to therapist. Talk to trust friends and family in general not about your depression per se. Also make sure your life is happy. Your work/school finances, home, friends, hobbies, interests, etc. A depressed negative person whom you bicker with will only make matters worse. Take this time away from this negative guy to reflect on things and what kind of relationship you wish to have. Certainly not bickering over Whatsapp all day, no? Yeah I was planing to do that actually but with this pandemic well only online for the moment. According to him I was the negative one in this relationship, still he was very supportive and He was there for me for everything and stood by my side. But there were some things I didnt like abt him He’s main concern was only weed , i think he loves weed more than anything and even more than himself and ofc he spends all his money on weed and everytime We got out I was the one paying 95% of the time and ofc I got angry since I just couldn’t figuring out why on heaven was weed that much important Link to post Share on other sites
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