bananatree Posted March 12, 2021 Share Posted March 12, 2021 What he's doing while he is gone is only part of the issue. You have every right to demand that he stay home with you at night. You are pregnant and on bedrest and don't feel comfortable when he is gone. If you explain why this is important to you (which I'm sure you have) and he still requires his night-time jaunts, then you have your answer. You can make up whatever explanation you want in your head, since it's likely you'll never get the truth anyway. But, I would suggest that for now, focus on your baby and your health. You need to relax and take care of yourself. The last thing you need right now is the stress of a PI situation or divorce. But definitely keep that plan for the future after the baby is born and you feel stronger. I would avoid sex with him in case he is visiting prostitutes. Just keep interactions to the minimal house and baby related stuff. Move on in your mind. And take action at the right time. Link to post Share on other sites
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