May996 Posted February 23, 2021 Share Posted February 23, 2021 (edited) I'm 24 years old and I've been in relationship with him since i was 16. Also we had our break up 2 years ago for 6 months and came back together but now i don't know i don't feel the same way for him. I don't wanna get married early not to him not to anyone. He ia a very good guy and i feel bad for having change of heart. After our patch i stopped thinking about our future together i was like go with the flow and now i feel guilty and so i told him i was getting bored of this relationship ofcourse he felt hurt. Am i playing a villain here? I feel too bad for feeling this way. 10 years has been too long for me i guess and I'm still pursuing my degree i want to do many things explore many things and his dreams are different than my and sometimes he puts pressure on me saying we should get married, I'm working this hard for our better future and all. I feel so selfish. Please someone help me i feel lost Edited February 23, 2021 by May996 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 23, 2021 Share Posted February 23, 2021 2 hours ago, May996 said: i told him i was getting bored of this relationship ofcourse he felt hurt. Why not just end it? Live your life freely and free from constraints you don't want. Pressuring you for marriage is a red flag. It's best not to string anyone along with vague insulting remarks about being bored. Have the courage, integrity and self confidence to end things sincerely and kindly. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted February 23, 2021 Share Posted February 23, 2021 (edited) It's ok to break up with him. You've lost the feeling, he's not fitting in your plans for the future. He will be sad for a time but he'll get over it and he'll meet someone else. Never ever stay with someone out of pity. Edited February 23, 2021 by Gaeta Link to post Share on other sites
TeddyBundy1993 Posted February 28, 2021 Share Posted February 28, 2021 It happens way more often than you think with almost all high school sweethearts. Its a bitter truth of life things change constantly. You've a change of heart and its really normal, you've tried your best to save it but still see no future. You are done in your subconscious mind now. Be upfront with that poor guy tell him straight forwardly what has happened and you want to explore more. He will hurt a lot more since he is still heavily invested in this relationship. Don't keep him under dark anymore he should have all the liberty to go on and find someone else for himself. While you explore your interests in life. Nothing to be guilty, its life and people do grow apart living together and even married ones. It just happens, I hope he finds his happiness and you find yours. Take care. Link to post Share on other sites
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