Did he lie to me?

[Acacia98]

1 hour ago, Hpchic said:

I have chosen to walk away at this point.  I just feel in my gut that I haven’t heard the last of him.  He was contacting me randomly this whole past year while we were broken up too

Please just block him everywhere so that even if he tries to reach out, it doesn't interfere with your life and you can truly move on.

This type of relationship, with someone who doesn't seem to know what he wants, is the worst. It will shred your self-esteem.

You want children. Don't compromise on that. Of course it's possible that you may not get pregnant, but you owe it to yourself to try. Giving up that dream for this guy or anyone else would leave you resentful of him, angry with yourself and wondering "what if." It's hard to move on from that. It would be better for you if you tried for children with someone and failed and then accepted that kids weren't in the cards for you. Alternatively, it would be ideal if you arrived at the decision not to have kids in some other organic way. Mr. Uncertainty's way is far from organic .

And please, please just block him. This guy is being too damn selfish. He's not treating you right. He needs to leave you alone, but he's probably not going to do that. So do yourself the favor of setting firm boundaries in place.

[Hpchic]

2 minutes ago, Acacia98 said:

Please just block him everywhere so that even if he tries to reach out, it doesn't interfere with your life and you can truly move on.

This type of relationship, with someone who doesn't seem to know what he wants, is the worst. It will shred your self-esteem.

You want children. Don't compromise on that. Of course it's possible that you may not get pregnant, but you owe it to yourself to try. Giving up that dream for this guy or anyone else would leave you resentful of him, angry with yourself and wondering "what if." It's hard to move on from that. It would be better for you if you tried for children with someone and failed and then accepted that kids weren't in the cards for you. Alternatively, it would be ideal if you arrived at the decision not to have kids in some other organic way. Mr. Uncertainty's way is far from organic .

And please, please just block him. This guy is being too damn selfish. He's not treating you right. He needs to leave you alone, but he's probably not going to do that. So do yourself the favor of setting firm boundaries in place.

Yes, I agree with everything you’ve said.  I think I was just speaking out of emotion the other day.  I owe to myself to at least try to have a child, I froze my eggs a few years ago so would hate to have went through all that and not even try.  Agreed, he’s selfish and he’s even admitted it to me.