AdamPad Posted March 5, 2021 Share Posted March 5, 2021 My GF and I are too different and she'll never meet in the middle despite claiming she does. I don't know how to end things correctly during covid and I don't have the guts to simply say, "it's over" esp since I don't know if she'll come over to my house and I recently moved back in with family since covid has made things rough. Best way to go about this? I am out of ideas and I don't want to cheat or do anything hurtful. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 5, 2021 Share Posted March 5, 2021 21 minutes ago, AdamPad said: My GF and I are too different and she'll never meet in the middle despite claiming she does. Sorry to hear that. How long have you been dating? Neutral as possible. "It's just not working out". Don't suggest breaking up as a means to change anything. If it's over, it's over. Covid or no Covid. Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted March 5, 2021 Share Posted March 5, 2021 1 hour ago, AdamPad said: My GF and I are too different and she'll never meet in the middle despite claiming she does. So say "I think we're too different you'll never meet in the middle despite claiming you do." Then give examples of how she doesn't meet you in the middle and explain that you don't want to deal with that anymore. There's nothing wrong with that. She might be a little hurt, but that's the risk you run when you enter a relationship and not meeting someone in the middle. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted March 5, 2021 Share Posted March 5, 2021 I say a little of both the above. Tell her you don’t think it’s working out and you don’t want to date anymore. If she asks why, then you tell her that you just feel like you are too different and you want different things. Try to keep it as general as possible. You do have to actually tell her you want to stop dating though. It’s hard, but it’s the kind thing to do. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author AdamPad Posted March 28, 2021 Author Share Posted March 28, 2021 thank you all I haven't seen her in a few weeks due to the pandemic but I'll let ya'll know how this goes once we link up Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 Stop dragging it out. Call her. Use video or voice. Tell her that you have had time to reflect & that you think you two are too different so you are ending things. Wish her well & hang up. Do NOT text. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AdamPad Posted April 7, 2021 Author Share Posted April 7, 2021 Met in person, we talked and it's over. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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