MihiranCG Posted March 10, 2021 Share Posted March 10, 2021 Personally, My attraction goes always her Smile☺️ & Eyes 👀 . Link to post Share on other sites
5x5 Posted March 10, 2021 Share Posted March 10, 2021 To me a woman's face is the most attractive feature which draws me in, followed by their vulva and breasts. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted March 10, 2021 Share Posted March 10, 2021 (edited) For me... breasts. I met my current girlfriend in an apartment complex pool, she was wearing this cute little blue bikini. She later admitted shopping and shopping for the perfect bikini to show off her assets... She got my attention. She has a cute face and great body, but I did notice her breasts first. Edited March 10, 2021 by Happy Lemming 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted March 10, 2021 Share Posted March 10, 2021 Face for me is everything. So I would rather have a good looking face on a woman even if she is heavy set, than have a woman who's face I am not into. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted March 11, 2021 Share Posted March 11, 2021 Hmm. Face, hair, eyes, smile, personality, intelligence, interests, voice, shoulders, boobs, waist, legs, "hip area" and butt, wittiness, flirting style, sexual interest/enthusiasm, interest level in me, being a bit of a "challenge" sometimes, devotion. Probably other stuff I'm not thinking of too. Oh, did you say "most"? 🙂 I think for me that would vary depend on the specific person. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ZA Dater Posted March 12, 2021 Share Posted March 12, 2021 For me its usually face, personality and how she speaks. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 (edited) Pretty face, long flowing hair and nice smile are a winning combination. Edited March 15, 2021 by Foxhall 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted March 15, 2021 Share Posted March 15, 2021 2 hours ago, Foxhall said: ...long flowing hair Yes... I forgot about long hair. I won't date a woman with short hair, it is just a turn off. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Peach Posted March 16, 2021 Share Posted March 16, 2021 I keep meeting a lot of men who can't seem to do much more than look at a women if there is no intelligence. Intelligence and being able to converse on a range of subjects helps a lot to draw people in. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Thunder27 Posted March 18, 2021 Share Posted March 18, 2021 Initial things I notice/look for: 1. Face 2. dress (because it gives an idea of what their personality/values are like) After conversing: 1. Intelligence or at least ability to engage on many different subjects/ideas. 2. Values On 3/16/2021 at 6:08 PM, Miss Peach said: I keep meeting a lot of men who can't seem to do much more than look at a women if there is no intelligence. Intelligence and being able to converse on a range of subjects helps a lot to draw people Its true. Me and my ex could for 6 hours everyday about stuff and I loved it. Met a pretty dull girl recently and it just doesn't do anything for me. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted March 22, 2021 Share Posted March 22, 2021 On 3/16/2021 at 4:08 PM, Miss Peach said: I keep meeting a lot of men who can't seem to do much more than look at a women if there is no intelligence. Intelligence and being able to converse on a range of subjects helps a lot to draw people in. For myself, I'd probably be willing to date/have a fling with a physically attractive woman with lower intelligence levels, but I think LT there's no way it'd work. There is also "EQ" to consider and some people who don't have "book smarts" make up for it in social skills, so that would be a potential mitigating factor. Link to post Share on other sites
Thunder27 Posted March 23, 2021 Share Posted March 23, 2021 On 3/22/2021 at 2:22 PM, mark clemson said: For myself, I'd probably be willing to date/have a fling with a physically attractive woman with lower intelligence levels, but I think LT there's no way it'd work. There is also "EQ" to consider and some people who don't have "book smarts" make up for it in social skills, so that would be a potential mitigating factor. Kind of interesting you say that. My ex was book smart but didn't know any of her emotions. She said I knew them better than her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted March 23, 2021 Share Posted March 23, 2021 (edited) No surprises , so called book smarts don't really mean very much , matter of fact often people like that are pretty clueless and lost if they don't have a book. A professor friend of mine admitted he even notices that. Edited March 23, 2021 by chillii Link to post Share on other sites
Thunder27 Posted March 23, 2021 Share Posted March 23, 2021 19 minutes ago, chillii said: No surprises , so called book smarts don't really mean very much , matter of fact often people like that are pretty clueless and lost if they don't have a book. A professor friend of mine admitted he even notices that. Very true. Usually they are good at memorizing and that's all. Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 If you do some research on IQ vs EQ on the web it appears there are advantages to both. However I think it's true that SOME people specialize too much in either IQ or EQ and then you get, e.g. a bookworm who's incompetent in the real world or an influential person who doesn't know how to think critically/process facts, etc. Balance... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Thunder27 Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 (edited) 13 hours ago, mark clemson said: If you do some research on IQ vs EQ on the web it appears there are advantages to both. However I think it's true that SOME people specialize too much in either IQ or EQ and then you get, e.g. a bookworm who's incompetent in the real world or an influential person who doesn't know how to think critically/process facts, etc. Balance... I agree, I was usually "booksmartish" I guess, but being in a relationship and writing has helped a lot with developing EQ. My ex clearly had anxiety and perfectionist tendencies, and didn't understand emotions at all let alone how to communicate them. People who make it to the top for sure have both, I would say EQ is even more important. Typically, I would say people move up when they are likeable or at least know how to get what they want, not whether they are actually knowledgeable or even the most competent. Thanks for bringing this up, something to consider. Edited March 24, 2021 by Thunder27 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 (edited) Overall I like smart guys. Intellectual dudes get me going. But then I like guys that are dumb sometimes. I think it can be really cute when they’re like really dumb, but really hot. haha. often times, those moods are not actually even “dumb” they just have a different kind of intelligence. Like an ‘alligator philosophy’ type of thing that blows my mind when they spout out some bro-wisdom. Whoosh. oh wait, sorry this is what we find most attractive about girls. Boobs for me. Edited March 24, 2021 by Cookiesandough 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Thunder27 Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, Cookiesandough said: Overall I like smart guys. Intellectual dudes get me going. But then I like guys that are dumb sometimes. I think it can be really cute when they’re like really dumb, but really hot. haha. often times, those moods are not actually even “dumb” they just have a different kind of intelligence. Like an ‘alligator philosophy’ type of thing that blows my mind when they spout out some bro-wisdom. Whoosh. oh wait, sorry this is what we find most attractive about girls. Boobs for me. LOL what about guys who are intellectual, hot, and are also well versed in bro-ology? I like boobs too. Edited March 24, 2021 by Thunder27 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 Boobs are dope 2 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 (edited) Haaa crikey that's the funniest thing l've ever read. They bloody are too. But when l was on a date site for a breif stint back in the day it had me dumbfounded why so many later 40s and early 50s had all these low cut top pics and boob fests going on. For one thing like there's a time and place and that stuff was just too damn obvious but for another , l found it really off putting at that age and on a date site. l mean come on they aren't 20 anymore and most of those types if anything looked even more ragged than their age you'd just think they'd had a bit more class with the age yaknow. As to ops ques , of course there are physical things. l'm a sucker for a cute little arse and even moreso the frontal view and yummy bits . But personality wise some true depth and soul and l'm a goner. So few women have it it's mind blowing how rare it is but l can pick it 10k away and when l do l'm done for. Edited March 25, 2021 by chillii 1 Link to post Share on other sites
searching heart Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 I use to go by looks but these days Its her personality. then her eyes. I also love a woman I can talk about anything with. Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 So very true , love a broadminded open and easy to talk to woman. Link to post Share on other sites
jah526 Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 19 hours ago, Cookiesandough said: Overall I like smart guys. Intellectual dudes get me going. But then I like guys that are dumb sometimes. I think it can be really cute when they’re like really dumb, but really hot. haha. often times, those moods are not actually even “dumb” they just have a different kind of intelligence. Like an ‘alligator philosophy’ type of thing that blows my mind when they spout out some bro-wisdom. Whoosh. That reminds me of an old Julie Brown song called I Like Em Big and Stupid. Gotta say, there is something to that. When I need something to help me unwind I find a six-foot baby with a one track mind Smart guys are nowhere, they make demands Give me a moron with talented hands I go bar-hopping and they say "last call" I start shopping for a Neanderthal 😂 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted March 26, 2021 Share Posted March 26, 2021 On 3/25/2021 at 3:15 AM, Cookiesandough said: Overall I like smart guys. Intellectual dudes get me going. But then I like guys that are dumb sometimes. I think it can be really cute when they’re like really dumb, but really hot. haha. often times, those moods are not actually even “dumb” they just have a different kind of intelligence. Like an ‘alligator philosophy’ type of thing that blows my mind when they spout out some bro-wisdom. Whoosh. oh wait, sorry this is what we find most attractive about girls. Boobs for me. Hmmm, you would like some of the guys I work with on the rigs. They're big, unrefined and have a PhD in bro-culture. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted March 27, 2021 Share Posted March 27, 2021 On 3/15/2021 at 12:28 PM, Happy Lemming said: Yes... I forgot about long hair. I won't date a woman with short hair, it is just a turn off. Even if she had spectacular breasts? 😛 Link to post Share on other sites
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