Not Ryan Retnolds Posted March 13, 2021 Posted March 13, 2021 I am 35 and for varying reasons have only been in a combined 1.5 years of relationships in my life(one 6 months, and one 1yr). When I try to date I never get a second date...ever. I always get you are such a nice person, such a amazing man, really one of a kind. Blah blah blah. I’m not shy and generally there is great conversation during dates and rarely awkward silence(at least from my end). Conversation is two sided, I make a point of being engaged in what they say and listen etc. Other than not being in a lot of rel through my life I’m pretty normal and I’m no model but am fit and I would say 7/10 if I’m being truthful. honestly getting rejected by being told over and over how great I am is making me depressed. I don’t know what I need to change but I feel like getting rejected is far harder than being lonely.
Gaeta Posted March 13, 2021 Posted March 13, 2021 The good news is you are getting dates! Maybe you appear a certain way in your profile but you're different in real life? I am not talking about your pictures but personality wise? Could also be the women you're picking? Usually when a woman identifies you as a *nice guy* it's because you didn't come across as confident, and confidence in a man is extremely important to women, even more than your look. 1
Author Not Ryan Retnolds Posted March 13, 2021 Author Posted March 13, 2021 If it’s confidence. How do you gain confidence?
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