Not Ryan Retnolds Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 I am 35 and for varying reasons have only been in a combined 1.5 years of relationships in my life(one 6 months, and one 1yr). When I try to date I never get a second date...ever. I always get you are such a nice person, such a amazing man, really one of a kind. Blah blah blah. I’m not shy and generally there is great conversation during dates and rarely awkward silence(at least from my end). Conversation is two sided, I make a point of being engaged in what they say and listen etc. Other than not being in a lot of rel through my life I’m pretty normal and I’m no model but am fit and I would say 7/10 if I’m being truthful. honestly getting rejected by being told over and over how great I am is making me depressed. I don’t know what I need to change but I feel like getting rejected is far harder than being lonely. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 The good news is you are getting dates! Maybe you appear a certain way in your profile but you're different in real life? I am not talking about your pictures but personality wise? Could also be the women you're picking? Usually when a woman identifies you as a *nice guy* it's because you didn't come across as confident, and confidence in a man is extremely important to women, even more than your look. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Not Ryan Retnolds Posted March 13, 2021 Author Share Posted March 13, 2021 If it’s confidence. How do you gain confidence? Link to post Share on other sites
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