Lorianna Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 Hi guys, Nearly a month ago my ex broke up with me beacuse of his trust issues. I wrote a thread that his mother texted me and when I told her that her son and I broke up, she told me that she knew that we had a fight. Though I was clear that it was over and I thanked her for everything and that I felt very welcomed at their family and will always have a special respect for them all. Basically it was something like telling her goodbye too. Some days after my ex texted me that he saw a picture of us and was sorry that couldn't repost it and telling me that he hopes I was well and a heart emoji. I replied a day later telling him "Our problem was that we were trying to show the world what an healthy relationship we had, but we were forgetting that we were lying to ourselves because our relationship was lacking one of the most important things, trust. I hope you are well too and a smiley emoji" and he didn't respond to that. Three days ago his mother texted me again. She asked how was I doing? How was everything going, like studies, work, health. Then she sent me a picture of two flowers and texted "Don't be mad at me, I am yours I love you". It rhymed in my language, probably it is a song or I don't know, she just created at the moment, no idea. I don't actually know what is going on. I mean, her son broke up with me, than texted something out of the blue about a memory of us (he was very sure about his decision, and though I tried to convince him not to break up he did) and then his mother texted me twice. I am really curios if her son knows that she is texting me, or is he telling her to text me so we could have a chance again. I am so confused. I don't know what to say to her anymore. I didn't wish her happy birthday, or wished her on women's day, neither did they text me when my grandfather passed away two weeks after breakup (ok they didn't know, he didn't see my stories but his best friend did, I have a post on social media and he could know only if he stalked my profile, and I guess he has done that but is acting like he doesn't know). Basically what I want to say is that we are no longer on each others life so I am not wishing or interefering anymore to show that I won't try and can't be part of your circle. And then suddenly, she texted me again Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 She misses you. Be happy that she was a nice person but don't respond. Eventually her son will get a new GF & she will stop reaching out to you. There's no need to be mean to her. Pay her no mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lorianna Posted March 13, 2021 Author Share Posted March 13, 2021 6 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: She misses you. Be happy that she was a nice person but don't respond. Eventually her son will get a new GF & she will stop reaching out to you. There's no need to be mean to her. Pay her no mind. That is the point, I don't want to be mean to her and don't want to leave her messages on delivered. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 (edited) Then tell her you have the outmost respect for her and you will miss her but at this time you need to take your distance from their family to heal. Edited March 13, 2021 by Gaeta Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 21 minutes ago, Lorianna said: I don't want to be mean to her and don't want to leave her messages on delivered. Why not? She's sending you unsolicited messages that you don't want. Who cares if you leave her on delivered? Worrying about junk like that is one of the huge downsides of social media. It really doesn't matter. Leaving her on delivered is a very nice way of ghosting her so she gets the message that you don't want to stay connected with her. Engaging just drags it out. Leaving her on delivered or read is NOT mean. Link to post Share on other sites
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