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For those talking about selfishness, anxiety medications can kill the desire, not just the ability.  In those situations porn isn't going to hold any interest for him either.  It's probably hard to imagine, but if you can try, if someone seriously had zero sexual urges or desires would you really want them to do it just for you?  I wouldn't want someone touching me in a sexual way knowing they felt absolutely nothing sexual about it.  I want to share sex, not be serviced.     

The main issue is the medication and seeing if it can be switched to something that doesn't kill his desire.  The motivation for him to do that might come from you @Sexlesslady telling him how serious this is for you, that it's seriously threatening your relationship and making you doubt whether or not it can last.  This is a difficult situation to be in, I hope he will listen to you and seek alternative medications.  

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14 minutes ago, FMW said:

For those talking about selfishness, anxiety medications can kill the desire, not just the ability. 

Good point. the blood pressure meds as well can exacerbate ED and also kill libido. There is way too much hype about testosterone shots, unless he wants a heart attack, skyrocketing blood pressure and anxiety, irritability through the roof. "Roid rage" is not just for gym monkeys. 

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1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

 "Roid rage" is not just for gym monkeys. 

When my boss got his low Testosterone corrected he had just the opposite effect.  When his "T" was low he was moody... afterwards he was quite happy and content.

I don't know if he had shots or pills or cream.  I do know he worked with a doctor who took really good care of him and this problem.

Perhaps its the process of finding the right doctor and the correct dosage??

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