Usy111 Posted March 29, 2021 Share Posted March 29, 2021 So me and this girl were dating around 5 years ago, she seemed to like me a lot. I knew that someone else was interested in her but convinced myself that she wouldn't be interested in that guy as she seemed happy with me. About 4 months in to the relationship, one of my friends found out that she was engaged to him. I confronted her but she said no, although my gut feeling knew that she was lying so I stopped talking to her, she did keep messaging me afterwards but I kept ignoring her. A few months later I found out she got married, by then I had completely deleted her off everything. That was 5 years ago, she had a divorce around about 18 months after that. We got back in touch last year and are back together and things were good at first, but I am kind of having regrets about it now as we have been arguing a lot lately. It sometimes feels as though she wants me to chase her even though I do a lot for her already, and I have also found out that she's had quite a few boyfriends since her divorce which also makes me uncomfortable. I think she likes it when guys pine for her but I've always been the type to never chase people, sometimes I feel like she ignores me for a day or two to see if I'd chase her but I also don't like that she seems quite friendly with other guys. I know I should start to let go as this relationship feels unhealthy but I feel too attached to her, advice on what I should do would be helpful. Thank you Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 29, 2021 Share Posted March 29, 2021 Stop chasing & see if she comes to you. IMO you never should have gotten back together with her after her divorce. You already knew she was a liar prone to cheating who makes bad decisions. Where is the upside? Link to post Share on other sites
CommanderCody799 Posted March 30, 2021 Share Posted March 30, 2021 yes you should! Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 30, 2021 Share Posted March 30, 2021 18 hours ago, Usy111 said: We got back in touch last year and are back together and things were good at first, but I am kind of having regrets about it now as we have been arguing a lot lately. She seems too flighty to have a happy relationship with. Link to post Share on other sites
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