Stacca Posted March 30, 2021 Share Posted March 30, 2021 So after ending a 6 year relationship with my partner, who moved into the home I've owned for 15 years) he proceed to buy the house next door to to me . directly nextdoor..the day after I asked him to leave.......who does that? Seriously? who in their right mind would buy a house right beside their ex??? anyways, we continued to see each other on and off for a few months when all of a sudden he shut me out turns out, he had a new girlfriend.... In the same week I make this discovery, there's a knock on my door. a woman informing me she'd been having sexual relations with 'my guy' for over ten years. that he'd played us both. so I went and confronted him. he admitted that the entire time we were together he had at least ten to twelve other women he was sleeping with and that he played me for a fool. That I was 'convenient'......... .6 years I gave my time and energy to this guy......to hear that .and now to have to see it... And it's new girlthing everyday!!!!! .I don't want to move. I shouldn't have to move. but how do I move past this hurt and anguish when it's in my face every single day??? .please someone help me it's been almost 2 years and the pain of being betrayed, lied to, used and abused us still so so raw....... Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 30, 2021 Share Posted March 30, 2021 7 minutes ago, Stacca said: I don't want to move. I shouldn't have to move. Delete him and all his people from ALL your social media and messaging apps. If he's actively bothering you,get a restraining order. Get a video house alarm. Install as many fences and trees as your zoning allows to ensure your privacy and security. Get therapy to unpack and sort some of this out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 30, 2021 Share Posted March 30, 2021 A fence is the best option right now. @Wiseman2's other suggestions are also good. What a sick thing for the guy to do. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cheryl123 Posted March 30, 2021 Share Posted March 30, 2021 Sometimes you have to let it all tumble down so you can rebuild it more sturdy from the ground up! Sometimes it is better to walk away from a bad environment if it means gaining back your sanity. I know I want this guy back but I also want to be a better version of myself for if he does. I'm not saying you want your guy back but moving isn't such a bad thing if you can gain back your independence. I had no idea that heart break could hit you so deep! Ouch Link to post Share on other sites
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