FOLLOW ALL the LIVE ACTION HERE as I (MOST LIKELY) GET IGNORED for 30 DAYS STRAIGHT.

[Dalkidd]

The reason for the break up shall be kept secret (as I don't wanna get banned). In a nutshell, we used to text everyday for the past 7 years (long distance relationship) but since the "break up" a month ago, I have done majority of the texting, hell..I've done ALL of the texting. 

Personally, I'm in too deep to go back and do the NC so I'll use myself as a guinea pig to see how long she takes before blocking me, replying my texts or if she decides to ignore me to infinity without blocking or replying. I know it seems kinda creepy but I dont intend on texting every 5 minutes. My intention is a maximum of 3 texts (like we used to) spread out over the day at reasonable periods:

1. Good morning text- (6am ish).  2. Mid day text to see how she's doing (2pm ish)  3. Good night text (11pm ish)

I would LOVE to phone her but I gave up a million years ago because she doesnt pick, no matter what I do. I dont wanna be a nuisance or a stalker. Texting seems more reasonable.

 

I shall begin from the last point of contact (Monday at 7:30pm when she sent the last text.)

 

DAY 1: Monday, 29th March. She texted me at 7:30pm to scold me and generally talk crap to me. I texted back 3 frantic texts.........NO REPLY

DAY 2: Tuesday, 30th March.  Good morning text, mid morning text, evening text, good night text.....NO REPLY

DAY 3: Wednesday 31st March. Good morning text, mid morning text (I told her about the "pass out challenge" on tiktok and how a kid died, so I suggested she should control what her daughter watches on you tube so as not to take part in the challenge.- I wanted to appear as if I care for her daughter and 100% expected a reply.....NO REPLY so far.

*I intend on sending a final good night text at 11pm. I hope to post here if or not I get a reply.

 

[Dalkidd]

 

9 texts sent, 9 texts unreplied so far......

[Wiseman2]

24 minutes ago, Dalkidd said:

The reason for the break up shall be kept secret (as I don't wanna get banned). 

Could you clarify this? 

So far it sounds like you are trying to get a restraining order slapped on you.

Keep in mind she can (and will) show this stalking and harassment to all her people.

As well as all the evidence you are providing for the police for her to get a restraining order against you and have you charged with stalking and harassment..

Stop. Get yourself some mental health intervention.

[ExpatInItaly]

No. Texting like this does not seem reasonable. 

Just stop. 

[Brooke02]

I say keep going.

if she’s not smart enough to block you, well?

also, how will you know your blocked? I know on one phone you can tell by the text color. Not sure on the other brand.

[mark clemson]

I guess I'm not seeing the point of this "experiment". If you've broken up, just move on, no need for an orbiter in your life (or hers). Is it some sort of "grudge match" carried out via text or ???

At any rate, consider therapy as to why you'd choose a LDR (e.g. avoidant attachment issues, possibly) and why you'd bother with (what is apparently) spiteful behavior WRT to texting her, rather than simply making a clean break as much as possible.