emceelaszlo Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 instead of using an example from my personal life i am asking the open ended question, both for girls and guys, share experiences, ideas, epiphanies. a guys perspective of us liking girls i think you can tell when the guy likes you when he consistently meets you in the same place, likes to converse with you a lot. remembers things that are vague and you are like what he knows that? i'd like to know some of the socal cues girls leave Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 That's a very good question emceelaszlo Well I think you can tell if a woman likes you if she talks to you or writes to you a lot, if she lets you know that you're attractive and a great catch, if she talks to you about very personal things but also jokes around with you lots. That's my opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
Drunken DJ Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 Goodness that seems a little forward. IS alcohol invilved when you do these sort of things Dry Spell? Link to post Share on other sites
Drunken DJ Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 Goodness that seems a little forward. IS alcohol involved when you do these sort of things Dry Spell? Link to post Share on other sites
NattyLight. Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 I always think if a girl doesn't berate me or walk away with those rolling eyes within 10 minutes of meeting me then she kinda likes me...but these occurences are few and far between. It kind of effects my self esteem a little bit, so my perspective of acceptance is a little skewed. But that all changed last Tuesday in Art History class....I got a girls number!!! She was really busy this weekend, so we're getting together tomorrow to study...hopefully I will be an impressionist like monet LOL!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
fusangite Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 That's a very good question emceelaszlo Well I think you can tell if a woman likes you if she talks to you or writes to you a lot, if she lets you know that you're attractive and a great catch, if she talks to you about very personal things but also jokes around with you lots. That's my opinion.I agree generally with this post except the "very personal things" part; this is just as often a signal that she isn't attracted to you at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author emceelaszlo Posted October 19, 2005 Author Share Posted October 19, 2005 cant say its often that a girl has addressed me and told me i'd be a great catch, the first thing that comes to mind is this girl in my grade whose a total flirt and was like "you know if you were my boyfriend i'd end up alright" something like that Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 the first thing that comes to mind is this girl in my grade and that would be what, EMCEELASZLO....grade 4 or maybe 5? Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 i would have to say if she is showing you alot of attention and being very flirtaous than she likes you ... Link to post Share on other sites
CarmenIbanez Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Here are some of the subtle cues I have either used, or seen other women use. 1) Touching. Reaching out and putting a hand on his hand or arm when we're talking. Or putting a hand on his back as you walk around or behind him. Also falling into this category is what I call the "Monica" (think friends), which is when someone "hits" a guy when they are talking. Either on the arm, or in the stomach. 2) Eye Contact. Eye contact is the number one cue. When someone meets your gaze, and will lock eyes with you and not look away. Most people are uncomfortable with direct and lasting eye contact, so this is a pretty good clue. Also, when you are in a group setting, and everyone is participating in a conversation, but she continuously directs her attention at you specifically when she talks to the group. 3) Excuses. As in excuse to run into you, talk to you, email you, etc. 4) Details. A person who is interested in you remembers little details about things you say and do. The use of an expression that you use. The purchase of a book you mentioned. An interest in a hobby you participate in, etc. 5) Body Language. A woman who is interested in you will lean in to talk to you. She will touch her neck/chest/face. Lick lips/teeth a lot. Granted, these are all subtle cues. Some people are more direct and easy to read. Here is the biggest mistake men make when it comes to women: just plain attention from a woman is not necessarily interest. Women are perhaps more social than men, especially in groups. Watch more for specific types of attention like I listed above. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Watch more for specific types of attention like I listed above. Hmmm pretty good list CARMENIBANEZ.....what if she was totally naked and sitting on my hard c*ck and I was sucking on her nipples??? Would this be a subtle cue that she's interested? Link to post Share on other sites
noclobber Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Hmmm pretty good list CARMENIBANEZ.....what if she was totally naked and sitting on my hard c*ck and I was sucking on her nipples??? Would this be a subtle cue that she's interested? She still may not be interested I guess.. What if she just wanted a short fling? Link to post Share on other sites
noclobber Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Here are some of the subtle cues I have either used, or seen other women use. 1) Touching. Reaching out and putting a hand on his hand or arm when we're talking. Or putting a hand on his back as you walk around or behind him. Also falling into this category is what I call the "Monica" (think friends), which is when someone "hits" a guy when they are talking. Either on the arm, or in the stomach. 2) Eye Contact. Eye contact is the number one cue. When someone meets your gaze, and will lock eyes with you and not look away. Most people are uncomfortable with direct and lasting eye contact, so this is a pretty good clue. Also, when you are in a group setting, and everyone is participating in a conversation, but she continuously directs her attention at you specifically when she talks to the group. 3) Excuses. As in excuse to run into you, talk to you, email you, etc. 4) Details. A person who is interested in you remembers little details about things you say and do. The use of an expression that you use. The purchase of a book you mentioned. An interest in a hobby you participate in, etc. 5) Body Language. A woman who is interested in you will lean in to talk to you. She will touch her neck/chest/face. Lick lips/teeth a lot. Granted, these are all subtle cues. Some people are more direct and easy to read. Here is the biggest mistake men make when it comes to women: just plain attention from a woman is not necessarily interest. Women are perhaps more social than men, especially in groups. Watch more for specific types of attention like I listed above. Great list!! As a guy that recently mistook that a woman was romantically interested in me, I can safely say that women can give hell a lot of signals and still not be actually interested in you!!! Some do just to get the guy's attention and the ensuing compliments in return in order to boost their egos. Link to post Share on other sites
CarmenIbanez Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Hmmm pretty good list CARMENIBANEZ.....what if she was totally naked and sitting on my hard c*ck and I was sucking on her nipples??? Would this be a subtle cue that she's interested? Pun intended.... Link to post Share on other sites
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