Sarah Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 (edited) I have been married since 6 years and I have recently have my first born last Oct.my husband does not not initiate sex at all. Since marriage i have seen this but I thought with time it will get better but has not. After I conceived our first we did not have sex till date. Last was in Dec 2019, I don't remember it when we did last. I am getting to the point I need to be felt loved. I keep getting Vivid dreams about my ex and to my surprise even tried contacting me. Anyways that's for another time, what do I do to make it work in marriage. it's become monotonous life nothing happy or joyful. Please any suggestions how to get him to understand I need intimacy from time to time. Only times he does is when I am shouting on top of the roof and begging for it. I feel I am loosing my self respect in this aspect of life. Thank you. Edited April 4, 2021 by Sarah Link to post Share on other sites
Keridan Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 Have you talked to him about it? He could just have a low sex drive or maybe he wants you to initiate it or something like that. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 Sorry to hear this. Is this an arranged marriage? If there was sex prior to marriage, was it any good? Is he with other women (or men)? Unfortunately your marriage seems like a sham marriage for the purposes of family and appearances. Obviously a child changes things, but you state he's never been interested. Link to post Share on other sites
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