Love2015 Posted April 4, 2021 Posted April 4, 2021 I belong to a group of friends which i inherited when I was with my ex husband. He is out of the picture. New people entered the group too. I have never quite understood why I felt lonely with them except for the fact that everyone now is married and has kids and I am the divorced one. Lately I have come to a point that i don't want to interact with them. Not even the girls ...we are like 13 of us. None of them ever come to my place while we do go to the other homes. When I expressed that I would like for them to come over, they make it as no big deal. But I have been feeling they not there - I had a back surgery and like literally none came nor they got together to send me flowers or anything. Every time one of them got married had a kid , bday...we organize and celebrate it ...and it's like it's expected. I don't know how to make them change to care or if it's time to cut them off?
Wiseman2 Posted April 4, 2021 Posted April 4, 2021 47 minutes ago, Love2015 said: I belong to a group of friends which i inherited when I was with my ex husband. Make your own friends. Especially single friends. Join some groups, clubs, volunteer, get involved. These are just acquaintances. Don't live in your ex-husbands shadow. When you divorce, it's best to delete and block him and all his people from ALL your social media and messaging apps. The exception is if there are children.
d0nnivain Posted April 4, 2021 Posted April 4, 2021 Life goes on. You are not in the same stage as they are anymore. It's time to expand your social circle.
glows Posted April 4, 2021 Posted April 4, 2021 Make new friends. These friendships have long expired. Let go so you have more space, time, freedom, movement to explore other interests and develop new friendships. Haven't you gotten sick of them by now? Their company sounds so dull and scripted. I'm sorry that none of them came to see you when you had surgery either. Out with the old.
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