Need Advice! Please help

[kewllady123]

Okay, well I just signed up here after getting myself into a situation, and could really use some advice.

 

I met this guy a few weeks ago named Jay, and we really seemed to hit it off. After talking all night, he invited me back to his house, and I had intimate relations with him. I didn't know what came over me, but it all just felt right. He seemed to feel the same way too, and was so gentle and caring.

 

The next morning, I woke up with a smile on my face. I could have laid there with him all day, but he had some things that he had to do for work, and so we made plans to meet up later on in the week, and he gave me a big hug and I went home.

 

Later on that evening, I called him to let him know I was thinking about him, and I couldn't wait to see him again. He said he was looking forward to it, too, but didn't know if he would be able to meet me until later on in the evening, because he had so much to do at work. I understood, and told him to just call me whenever he could see me.

 

Well, he called a few days later, on the day we were supposed to meet, but it was almost 11 o'clock. At first I was mad, but since he was caught up at work, I decided to forgive him, and I went right over. When I got to his house, he met me at the door and, well, I'm sure you can understand where it led to. After a little while, he mentioned that he would have to be getting up to go to work really early in the morning, so it would probably be easier for me to drive home that night, instead of him waking me up so early. I thought that was thoughtful of him, so I kissed him goodbye and went home.

 

I called him the next day, to see how he was doing, and I got his voicemail. So, I left him a message to call me later, but he didn't call. I called him again a few hours later, and got his voicemail again, and left him another message. Still no call back.

 

At first I was really mad, because I felt that he was just blowing me off. So, I went over to his house to confront him. He came up to his house that day, surprised to see me, but then apologized for not calling me back. He just found out some news the day before at work, and was having a hard time coping with it. He was being transferred to another state, and didn't know how to tell me.

 

Well, I felt so bad about thinking such bad things about him, and apologized for acting so weird. He understood, and said that he wants to spend more time with me before he leaves, but will be gone for the next few weekends, out of state, so he can start looking for a place to live.

 

This was 2 weeks ago, and since then I've seen him once more. We both want to just spend so much time with each other that we don't even go out. Instead, we just spend our time alone in his house. The last time we were together, he told me he would be leaving next weekend, and didn't know if he'd get to see me again.

 

I just don't know what to do. I feel heart-broken. Some days I feel that I should just throw caution to the wind, and follow him out of state. Other parts of me wonder if we could possibly endure a long distance relationship. I have talked to him about this, but he feels that it would hurt too much if we were to try this, and he couldn't possibly ask me to move out of state with him.

 

Please help me with this. What can I do? I want to show him how much he means to me, but am afraid that I may miss my chance.