stillafool Posted December 23, 2021 Share Posted December 23, 2021 10 hours ago, EleanorRigby2000 said: From now on I will check on the coworker more often myself. That way if MM finds another way to contact me in the future and says it's about coworker, I can either tell him I am staying in touch with that person or I will just not respond (most likely the latter to prevent him from trying to keep communication going). No, no, never respond back to him under any circumstances. Block everything and don't respond to anything unless you know for sure it isn't him. I agree that you should tell his wife since he can't keep boundaries. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted December 23, 2021 Share Posted December 23, 2021 Think of it this way: If you respond - he knows you are agreeing to be his OW again. if you don’t respond - he knows you don’t agree to be his OW again. it’s as simple as that! Every time HE reaches out = he is checking to see IF you agree to continue the affair! do NOT respond to him! 4 Link to post Share on other sites
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