Zebarbu Posted April 18, 2021 Share Posted April 18, 2021 A girl I know rested her legs on my lap and let me stroke them and the underside of of her thighs. We ended up sleeping together on a sofa but nothing happened. Is this the friendzoned? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 18, 2021 Share Posted April 18, 2021 37 minutes ago, Zebarbu said: A girl I know rested her legs on my lap and let me stroke them and the underside of of her thighs. Are you dating? How old is she? Hard to say because it's unclear if this was a date or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zebarbu Posted April 18, 2021 Author Share Posted April 18, 2021 8 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Are you dating? How old is she? Hard to say because it's unclear if this was a date or not. No not dating. shes 21 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 18, 2021 Share Posted April 18, 2021 4 minutes ago, Zebarbu said: No not dating. Shes 21 Ok, then it's friendzone. If you like her, you'll have to ask her out on a date not just feel up her legs. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted April 18, 2021 Share Posted April 18, 2021 When sharing a bed did you make any type of sexual move? Women tend to not make moves, if you didn't then she likely won't. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 18, 2021 Share Posted April 18, 2021 It's hard to tell. If that is the only interaction she could be a friend who enjoyed the attention & you were a warm body. As a young girl I would often touch or massage opposite sex friends without it meaning much or wanting to date with them. If nothing else happened other than you both slept on the same couch, it's impossible to tell. Next time you are together either make a move or ask her out. If you are not confident enough to do that, at the very least start a conversation where you ask, "Have you ever thought about us, whether we can be more than friends?" If she says yes, you have your green light. If she rolls her eyes, or laughs, this is a dead end. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zebarbu Posted April 18, 2021 Author Share Posted April 18, 2021 3 hours ago, elaine567 said: When sharing a bed did you make any type of sexual move? Women tend to not make moves, if you didn't then she likely won't. No I didn’t. Link to post Share on other sites
Bringerofrain Posted April 21, 2021 Share Posted April 21, 2021 if she let you stroke the inside of her thigh it may have the potential to go past platonic. you might have to step up your game boy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Yosemite Posted April 22, 2021 Share Posted April 22, 2021 She made a move when she put her legs on your lap. You responded by making a move by stroking her legs. She made another move when she laid down with you on the couch to "sleep," and then you did nothing; you basically rejected her. It's unlikely that you'll get another chance with her; she'll probably go cold on you, but it's a good idea to ask her out anyway. BTW, you friendzoned yourself. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Bringerofrain Posted April 22, 2021 Share Posted April 22, 2021 1 minute ago, Yosemite said: She made a move when she put her legs on your lap. You responded by making a move by stroking her legs. She made another move when she laid down with you on the couch to "sleep," and then you did nothing; you basically rejected her. It's unlikely that you'll get another chance with her; she'll probably go cold on you, but it's a good idea to ask her out anyway. BTW, you friendzoned yourself. This Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zebarbu Posted April 22, 2021 Author Share Posted April 22, 2021 You’ll be happy to hear but we made out last night and we’ve agreed to go out sometime next week. Really nice make out too, I think she was into as she came in for more. Obviously things are complicated here with strict Covid regulations. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 23, 2021 Share Posted April 23, 2021 Glad you will be going out next week. Be safe. Link to post Share on other sites
Fletch Lives Posted April 23, 2021 Share Posted April 23, 2021 Let me put it this way - if you are not kissing, you are just wishing! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zebarbu Posted April 23, 2021 Author Share Posted April 23, 2021 44 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: Glad you will be going out next week. Be safe. Well it’s not 100% sure based on the response she gave me, but thanks. We will have to wait and see. Link to post Share on other sites
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