Bakedbenz28 Posted April 23, 2021 Share Posted April 23, 2021 Both late 20s. Dated this cool girl for couple months, was 0-100 real quick you know! I lost my job towards the end and got needy somewhat and texted her more frequently. I ended up getting another job but she ended soon after, said I was a bit needy last week of dating and broke things and said she wants space. Its been a week where I did NC bit I started texting her. First off she wrote short replies but now although the frequency is slow, only a few a day, her messages are getting longer while mine are still still same size, like she's adding more info in her texts in last few days. Confused what's happening as swear she wanted space but now writes longer messages than me. She's a caring girl but also the type to not openly say they made a mistake Any help? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 23, 2021 Share Posted April 23, 2021 Sorry but she thinks you can be just friends & you are now cool with communicating platonically. You are the guy with his nose pressed up against the bakery window who can't have the treats inside. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Stromae Posted April 24, 2021 Share Posted April 24, 2021 I’ll try to answer politely but realistically She said she wanted more space but then you texted her first after only a week. That’s not a huge deal in some cases but her reason specifically was that she felt you were needy, so in my opinion your mistake was texting first as that implies neediness in this circumstance Judging her intent with her texts can be hard but I would honestly not initiate any texts or be instead extremely non chalant and aloof. You’re best to move on to someone else, but if you are committed to another chance all I can tell you is if what you’re doing isn’t working then you must do something different. At all times be true to yourself though Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 24, 2021 Share Posted April 24, 2021 23 hours ago, Bakedbenz28 said: She's a caring girl but also the type to not openly say they made a mistake What mistake? Just ask her to go for coffee and tell her you would like to reconcile. However you'll have to stop smothering her like this or like before when she ended it because of that. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 On 4/24/2021 at 12:56 AM, Bakedbenz28 said: her messages are getting longer while mine are still still same size, like she's adding more info in her texts in last few days. Confused what's happening as swear she wanted space but now writes longer messages than me. She's a caring girl but also the type to not openly say they made a mistake You're reading too much into this. She's being chatty. It's not enough to assume she's having regrets. Link to post Share on other sites
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