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Sad Tomato

Saturday I ended an 11 year affair with a married man for religious reasons.   He is my best and only friend.  I cannot be weak and see him.  My heart is in pieces on the floor.

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Stupidkupid
11 minutes ago, Sad Tomato said:

Saturday I ended an 11 year affair with a married man for religious reasons.   He is my best and only friend.  I cannot be weak and see him.  My heart is in pieces on the floor.

Oof. 11 years.

Whatever your reasons for ending it, you've done the right thing.

I know it feels awful right now but it wasn't healthy.

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Oof is right. 

How is it that he is your only friend? I hope you have some family or someone who can offer you support. 

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BourneWicked

Sorry sad tomato. I ended with someone I considered my closest friend. End of story: I need to do the work to make more friends. 

So sorry, eventually it feels better. 

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13 hours ago, Sad Tomato said:

Saturday I ended an 11 year affair with a married man for religious reasons.  

Are you married as well? Whose religion? 

Do you work together?  He's not your only friend.

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Sad Tomato

I'm working to  make new friends, but I'm low on self confidence at the moment.  Thank you to all for your support.  I support you all as well.

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19 hours ago, Sad Tomato said:

I'm not married,  he's retired and older than me.  I'm Christian,  he is not.  

So he ended it after 11 years due to his religion? I wonder what sort of a mental gymnastics he had going on for those 11 years to justify it then? 

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