Sad Tomato Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 Saturday I ended an 11 year affair with a married man for religious reasons. He is my best and only friend. I cannot be weak and see him. My heart is in pieces on the floor. Link to post Share on other sites
Stupidkupid Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 11 minutes ago, Sad Tomato said: Saturday I ended an 11 year affair with a married man for religious reasons. He is my best and only friend. I cannot be weak and see him. My heart is in pieces on the floor. Oof. 11 years. Whatever your reasons for ending it, you've done the right thing. I know it feels awful right now but it wasn't healthy. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 (edited) Oof is right. How is it that he is your only friend? I hope you have some family or someone who can offer you support. Edited May 4, 2021 by BaileyB 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BourneWicked Posted May 5, 2021 Share Posted May 5, 2021 Sorry sad tomato. I ended with someone I considered my closest friend. End of story: I need to do the work to make more friends. So sorry, eventually it feels better. 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted May 5, 2021 Share Posted May 5, 2021 13 hours ago, Sad Tomato said: Saturday I ended an 11 year affair with a married man for religious reasons. Are you married as well? Whose religion? Do you work together? He's not your only friend. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sad Tomato Posted May 5, 2021 Author Share Posted May 5, 2021 I'm not married, he's retired and older than me. I'm Christian, he is not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sad Tomato Posted May 5, 2021 Author Share Posted May 5, 2021 I'm working to make new friends, but I'm low on self confidence at the moment. Thank you to all for your support. I support you all as well. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Starswillshine Posted May 6, 2021 Share Posted May 6, 2021 19 hours ago, Sad Tomato said: I'm not married, he's retired and older than me. I'm Christian, he is not. So he ended it after 11 years due to his religion? I wonder what sort of a mental gymnastics he had going on for those 11 years to justify it then? Link to post Share on other sites
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