genericwhitemale Posted May 13, 2021 Posted May 13, 2021 So a few of us were on lunch break earlier today and I happened to mention that I couldn't wait to be off for the weekend, as I was looking forward to smoking a joint and relaxing on Friday night. A lady friend of mine, who is an awesome person and who I am fairly attracted to, responded by saying that we should hang out some time. Now it may be just a coincidence, but that she suggested hanging out immediately said this suggests to me that she'd like to smoke with me. I say this because she often talks about how she occasionally smoke weed as a way of relaxing. I'd love to hang out with her, but my fear is that weed for some reason gives me a strong urge to cuddle and in general be intimate. I am just fearful that if we smoked together I'd do or say something that would make me look like a heel. By the way, if it matters, it's not as if I sit around and smoke weed all day. It's a very occasional way of relaxing and I only do it once all my other commitments are fulfilled. So. What do you think? Should I 'hang out' with her or leave it?
d0nnivain Posted May 13, 2021 Posted May 13, 2021 Hang out with her but warn her you get cuddly before you light up. If she stays do take no for an answer. As horney as you get that doesn't make you a rapist.
Tamfana Posted May 13, 2021 Posted May 13, 2021 1 hour ago, d0nnivain said: Hang out with her but warn her you get cuddly before you light up. If she stays do take no for an answer. As horney as you get that doesn't make you a rapist. Maybe expound on this a bit. It sounds as though you're saying that she has no right to say "no" if he told her he might not be able to control himself when high. But everyone always has the right to say, "no."
Wiseman2 Posted May 13, 2021 Posted May 13, 2021 3 hours ago, genericwhitemale said: So a few of us were on lunch break You work together? If you get horny when you smoke, inviting a coworker over for that is a whole lot of mess you don't want to touch. Smoke with other friends.
Miss Spider Posted May 13, 2021 Posted May 13, 2021 (edited) If you want to hang out with her, hang out with her. Why do people have to make things so complicated? Edited May 13, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language
ShyViolet Posted May 14, 2021 Posted May 14, 2021 You say you're attracted to her. What exactly is your goal in hanging out with her? To see if things may progress to more than friends, or what?
glows Posted May 14, 2021 Posted May 14, 2021 Pick someone else to smoke up with. You're taking it too literally. If you want to date her, ask her out on a proper date. She's giving you the green light to take her out. 1
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