If a women tells you there is no vibe between you, when you didn't ask the question

[User89]

6 hours ago, Taramere said:

 

I don't know what's going on in this woman's mind, but you seem very clear that you do know.  

Yes. As far I know, we had a flirty friendship going and she just shut it down. This is what I don't get because I wasn't really making a move on her.

 

[User89]

Btw, I just checked out more of her history and she is very chatty in the free chat forum and not at all particular to who she is talking to and about what. 

 

So I think she likes me. 

[d0nnivain]

On 5/14/2021 at 1:50 PM, User89 said:

Is this what they call love? 

No.  It's not even like. 

 

On 5/15/2021 at 10:10 AM, User89 said:

Yes. As far I know, we had a flirty friendship going and she just shut it down. This is what I don't get because I wasn't really making a move on her.

So back off.   That is what she wants.  You have gone from a "flirty friendship" to annoying her. 

 

6 hours ago, User89 said:

Btw, I just checked out more of her history and she is very chatty in the free chat forum and not at all particular to who she is talking to and about what. 

So I think she likes me. 

Recalculate that. Her not being "particular" to who she talks to means she will talk to anybody.  You are anybody. She does not like you.  You are just the only one there.  

[elaine567]

Pepe Le Pew...
 

 

[User89]

2 hours ago, d0nnivain said:

No.  It's not even like. 

 

So back off.   That is what she wants.  You have gone from a "flirty friendship" to annoying her. 

 

Recalculate that. Her not being "particular" to who she talks to means she will talk to anybody.  You are anybody. She does not like you.  You are just the only one there.  

 

 

I haven't done anything to her. 

[d0nnivain]

44 minutes ago, User89 said:

I haven't done anything to her. 

I get that but based on her latest statements about there not being a vibe just be done with her altogether.  

[User89]

48 minutes ago, d0nnivain said:

I get that but based on her latest statements about there not being a vibe just be done with her altogether.  

Yes but it runs counter to other events where we agreed with each other and our last convo was on friendly terms. 

There is a frequent push pull where she might ignore a message, and then we end up in a discussion and she wants to keep having me in there and asks me to help out. explain that?

We also have historical symbiosis where we posted our first pictures of ourselves right next to each others posts (she followed me).

Her picture of herself came after my picture at rocket speed. this was 8 years ago but I still remember her face (can you believe that??).

She claims to not know who I am from this remote event, but you will note that she did not write that she doesn't remember me.. which is curious. 

Anyway, I just mentioned that to her because I thought it was a strange coincidence where we intertwined. She is very attractive and it annoyed me:)

 

 

 

Edited May 16, 2021 by User89

[d0nnivain]

If she initiates contact with you, talk to her but otherwise back off.  

She doesn't want you to pursue.  Let her come to you. 

[User89]

Just now, d0nnivain said:

If she initiates contact with you, talk to her but otherwise back off.  

She doesn't want you to pursue.  Let her come to you. 

Will do, but do you think she remembers me? If you are attracted to someone 8 years ago and post a picture right after him, would you remember him if I described the picture?

I am also very attractive. That's why I'm hedging my bets that she does have a fragmented memory of it once I awaken it.

If you had to bet on it, does she remember the event?

[d0nnivain]

Some people have good memories.  Others do not. 

It doesn't really matter whether she remembers.  She has already told you to back off.  Ignore her directive at your own peril 

[Wiseman2]

They need to write a book called "She's Just Not That Into You" 📚, to be fair to everyone.

[Miss Spider]

She 👏 doesn’t 👏like 👏you 👏

[User89]

1 hour ago, d0nnivain said:

Some people have good memories.  Others do not. 

It doesn't really matter whether she remembers.  She has already told you to back off.  Ignore her directive at your own peril 

Then I'll ask you. Would you have remembered it? I told her I was holding a labrador. I'm curious If the dog aid or undermine the memory process? 

Edited May 16, 2021 by User89

[d0nnivain]

I have no memory for faces so probably not.  

[jspice]

7 minutes ago, d0nnivain said:

I have no memory for faces so probably not.  

If you started this thread just because you’re bored and just messing with people, you should really find a hobby. 
 

if you really believe this woman has feelings for you, we’ll probably be reading about you in the papers shortly where you’ll be quoted saying “her mouth said no but her eyes said yes” at your trial. 

[User89]

 

14 minutes ago, d0nnivain said:

I have no memory for faces so probably not.  

Yeah it's tough. Btw, something very strange happened after the last message when I was gonna give a last, quick reply. I got an automated response that her inbox is full, and needs to be cleaned which was a very strange coincidence. Tried again 10 minutes later, said the same...

I  checked with two accounts against each other  if it meant "blocked" but it does not. Could she gotten so affected by this that she shut down her mail? I just don't get the coincidence of it. Can you self impose this somehow? How can it coincide with her last message?

 

 

 

 

Edited May 16, 2021 by User89

[User89]

Just now, jspice said:

Right. 
We’re pretty lucky we have a bonafide woman expert here. 

Ask pollsters whether women tell the truth or not. They do NOT. And it has caused problems in who got elected.

Edited May 16, 2021 by User89

[User89]

Anyway, I do not believe her and I am sticking by that. That doesn't mean that she loves me, will ever come in contact with me again, or that I'm a narcisstic axe killer.

It just means that she was not telling the truth. 

I'm torn about the picture thing though. I wouldn't hold it against her 8 years later if she has no recollection. Too bad for me:) 

 

Edited May 16, 2021 by User89

[User89]

I'll repeat the context for those who joined in late.

Me: "How do I do X on this forum?"

Her: "There is zero vibe (love) between us, but good luck on the forum!:)"

 

 

[Marc878]

Typical guy thing. It was awesome, wonderful, etc.

 

NOPE

[User89]

Just now, Marc878 said:

Typical guy thing. It was awesome, wonderful, etc.

 

 

What?

[Marc878]

A lot of guys get the wrong impression. There’s something there when there isn’t.

[User89]

13 minutes ago, Marc878 said:

A lot of guys get the wrong impression. There’s something there when there isn’t.

Did you read the context? 

[Miss Spider]

Yea, I do, but we’ve already established I have bad taste 

Seriously though ,  expand your options. “Talk” to more women. Reading into things like this almost always is a sign of scarcity because why else would you care so much if one woman ( who clearly isn’t into you) really meant what she said when she said she wasn’t into you. Just move up 

[User89]

19 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said:

Yea, I do, but we’ve already established I have bad taste 

Seriously though ,  expand your options. “Talk” to more women. Reading into things like this almost always is a sign of scarcity because why else would you care so much if one woman ( who clearly isn’t into you) really meant what she said when she said she wasn’t into you. Just move up 

 

I happen to enjoy this thread, that's why. Tell me this, if she has zero vibrations for me, why on earth didn't she just reply: "dunno".

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