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There has been loads of times that he could of slept with her last year but there has never been a time that they have been alone together and anytime he went too her house too see the dad there where times where she wasnt there times ive gone or the children he hasn’t ever been less affectionate towards me if anything he has been more affectionate too make me not fill unloved by him 

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44 minutes ago, Princess2130 said:

.... he hasn’t ever been less affectionate towards me if anything he has been more affectionate too make me not fill unloved by him 

I am afraid that doesn't mean much either.
Some men in affairs get more affectionate as they feel guilty and/or they don't want to arouse suspicion in their wife...

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Listen:

My partner was cheating on me and his guilt made him being super loving and attentive soo much that he took on renovating my condo for free. 

Do you have a camera on him to sware that he's never done anything? NO. 

The fact only he knows this bothers you but he does nothing about it means he's prioritizing HER over you. 

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2 hours ago, Princess2130 said:

make me not fill unloved by him 

How long has that been a problem? 

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4 hours ago, Princess2130 said:

He dosen’t hide anything from me and most of the messages are asking how she and the family are as she has lost a family member recently her dad is he best friend he is a charmer too other girls he knows but think just where she is single im reading more into it maybe 

OK... sounds like you are fine with it then.  Have a good time with that. 

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4 hours ago, Princess2130 said:

Ive threatend too leave and he says i shouldn’t let her come between us he calls her quite a few names too like she’s a slag as she has been known too sleep around he says if he really wanted too sleep with her he could of along time ago with her track record but she is not he’s type and she is a little girl too hom he has children older 

Well then, he should have no problem ending communication with her. If this is true, it should be a no brainer that he would not let this person come between himself and his wife and threaten his marriage. 

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4 hours ago, Princess2130 said:

he hasn’t ever been less affectionate towards me if anything he has been more affectionate too make me not fill unloved by him 

People will do one of two things when they are having an affair - 

Their sex life with their spouse will suffer, because they feel guilty and they find it difficult to be intimate with two different people 

OR, their sex life with their partner will stay the same or improve - because their motor is running and it’s all quite exciting. They also don’t want to alert their partner that anything is going on. Or, they may feel guilty and this is one way that they can please their partner...

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