Mrromanticx004 Posted May 25, 2021 Share Posted May 25, 2021 Hi, i am a married man and our neighbors are also married except they are living with parents in this case my neighbors husbands parents. When she is together with him shes always quiet and ignores me, she doesn’t seem happy when shes with him, but when shes alone and she sees me it gets funny. Today was just pretty obvious what she tried to do. As im arriving to park my car she was heading back to the lobby of our condo with her dogs and i was walking to the same direction. There was enough time for her to have clicked the elevator button before i even walked in but for some reason the elevator had nt arrived. As i entered she literraly has her back for me to see and turns her head nd says hello when she could have easily be standing looking at me straight forward. She knew i had to look, i just dont know where shes trying to go with this? It seems like games or she just really wants attention, but shes really getting to me with these little things. Link to post Share on other sites
Caauug Posted May 25, 2021 Share Posted May 25, 2021 Maybe she has an out going personality and her husband gets jealous if she displays it if they are together? Saying hello to a neighbor is a kind act and most likely not breaking any laws in most countries. Just "Hi" back.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mrromanticx004 Posted May 25, 2021 Author Share Posted May 25, 2021 She can say hello without showing me her ass i just think its such a tease what she did, literally was standing in a position for me to check her out Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted May 25, 2021 Share Posted May 25, 2021 (edited) This is ridiculous I think you are letting your dirty mind see things that aren't there. Have you ever walked dogs? It is not easy and sometimes you have to keep an eye on them as opposed to facing other people. Take your eyes off of her butt... SMH. Edited May 25, 2021 by elaine567 2 Link to post Share on other sites
NYAG Posted May 25, 2021 Share Posted May 25, 2021 9 hours ago, Mrromanticx004 said: Hi, i am a married man and our neighbors are also married except they are living with parents in this case my neighbors husbands parents. When she is together with him shes always quiet and ignores me, she doesn’t seem happy when shes with him, but when shes alone and she sees me it gets funny. Today was just pretty obvious what she tried to do. As im arriving to park my car she was heading back to the lobby of our condo with her dogs and i was walking to the same direction. There was enough time for her to have clicked the elevator button before i even walked in but for some reason the elevator had nt arrived. As i entered she literraly has her back for me to see and turns her head nd says hello when she could have easily be standing looking at me straight forward. She knew i had to look, i just dont know where shes trying to go with this? It seems like games or she just really wants attention, but shes really getting to me with these little things. What do you want out of it? If nothing, ignore her behaviour and carry on as normal. If she's trying it on with you then she'll have to be less subtle and then you can challenge it if she makes a pass at you. Personally, I wouldn 't go there. She's your neighbour. That's pretty much your own doorstep which is an absolute no no, and do you know her history? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted May 25, 2021 Share Posted May 25, 2021 44 minutes ago, Mrromanticx004 said: She can say hello without showing me her ass i just think its such a tease what she did, literally was standing in a position for me to check her out Is your marriage boring sexless or dead? If you have the hots for this neighbor, look but don't touch. You aleady know that though. Maybe she helps you imagination thinking she's secretly coming on to you? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 25, 2021 Share Posted May 25, 2021 It's all in your head. She had her back to you but turned to be polite. She wasn't intentionally showing you her bottom. She's not the problem here. You are. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Stupidkupid Posted May 25, 2021 Share Posted May 25, 2021 2 hours ago, d0nnivain said: It's all in your head. She had her back to you but turned to be polite. She wasn't intentionally showing you her bottom. She's not the problem here. You are. Yep. Or you make her uncomfortable OP which is why she doesn't want to be face to face with you. I am woman and when I show someone my back, I don't want to communicate with them and I'm making it fairly clear 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Mrin Posted May 25, 2021 Share Posted May 25, 2021 Alternate Fun Explanation: she was kicking it at a friend's house doing bong rips. They got the munchies and wolfed down some liverwurst and onion sandwiches and split a can of herring. She forget the Visine. She had her back turned to you because her eyes are super bloodshot, her breath could strip paint and she's hella paranoid stoned. Oh ya, stop being creepy. 2 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted May 26, 2021 Share Posted May 26, 2021 She's not flirting or making herself available to you. It's your wishful thinking that is getting the better of you. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted May 29, 2021 Share Posted May 29, 2021 (edited) On 5/24/2021 at 8:10 PM, Mrromanticx004 said: She knew i had to look, how? Quote She can say hello without showing me her ass i just think its such a tease what she did, literally was standing in a position for me to check her out This is you projecting what you wished she was thinking/doing---NOT what she was actually thinking or doing. Sad. I think you are reading waaaaaaaaaaaaaay more into this than what is actually falling out in experience at your feet. Try this: stop trying to start something with your neighbor's wife. Quote When she is together with him shes always quiet and ignores me, she doesn’t seem happy when shes with him, and guess what? Now when she's not with her husbands, she's going to keep her back turned to you, speak only when necessary and keep it moving. The actually reason may be that her husband has already clocked you checking out his wife and he said something to her. Could be she actually is serious about her vows, so no putting her marriage asunder is going to take place on her watch, hence her back to you and a curt "hello". It's clear on here through your replies that whatever went on before you saw her at the elevator, it only lived in your head, not hers. Edited May 29, 2021 by kendahke 2 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted May 29, 2021 Share Posted May 29, 2021 (edited) dupe Edited May 29, 2021 by kendahke duplicate Link to post Share on other sites
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