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Acrobaticdealer

Bit of an odd one for me this

Dated last year for 5 months and had an awesome time. I initiated the breakup and i can't even remember why (she was the one who pulled the trigger) very amicable, no hard feelings etc etc and i was fine with it

Fastforward 5 months and i reach out to her on IG, we chat and its very casual and nice. We plan on meeting up but then she stops responding (again, no hard feelings and i presume she's seeing someone else)

I then see a few posts on IG and it starts to sting a bit so delete her( she does the same about a week later)

i then bump into a friend who mentioned she was asking about me so i msg again and then she proceeds to block me on EVERYTHING! (WhatsApp, IG and Fb but not sure about texts/calls)

At this point, i feel awful. Really reeling and longing for her. Feels insane to be honest and i'm struggling with it.

Any advice?

Side note/ she's very young (19) but was super mature during our time together hence while it lasted 5 months and not 5 minutes 

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A year ago for 5 months is honestly not a really long time for there to be a strong foundation to build off of, in my opinion anyway

No one knows the answer to this other than yourself but I would do some reflection and question whether you truly miss her as much as you think, or if you are missing the idea of her and “wanting what you can’t have” after she deleted you from everything.

Beyond that she either doesn’t want to talk to you or is playing games at this point 

 

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