genericwhitemale Posted May 29, 2021 Share Posted May 29, 2021 I am absolutely no good at reading people or gaging their interest in me. So when a lady friend of mine and I recently told me what I'm about to type, it left me wondering if she's into me or just being kind. I've told her I think my brothers are more attractive than me. She later said that even though I may think my brothers are better looking than me, she thinks I'm a good guy who has had an interesting life and she'd pick me over them any day. Do you think this means something or is just being kind? Link to post Share on other sites
dramafreezone Posted May 29, 2021 Share Posted May 29, 2021 Tough to say. Only thing to do is to ask her out and find out, right? Are you into her? You didn't do yourself any favors by saying the thing about you and your brothers. Verbalizing insecurities is not attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
MeadowFlower Posted May 29, 2021 Share Posted May 29, 2021 33 minutes ago, genericwhitemale said: I am absolutely no good at reading people or gaging their interest in me. So when a lady friend of mine and I recently told me what I'm about to type, it left me wondering if she's into me or just being kind. I've told her I think my brothers are more attractive than me. She later said that even though I may think my brothers are better looking than me, she thinks I'm a good guy who has had an interesting life and she'd pick me over them any day. Do you think this means something or is just being kind? Is she the sort of person that dishes out compliments to everyone? If she isn't and if she's a more reserved person, then there is possibility of her liking you. But none of us really know. How did you respond? If you like her as more than a friend, for crying out loud, please make it super clear to her lol. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted May 29, 2021 Share Posted May 29, 2021 How well do you know this lady friend? How do you know each other? Is she single? Has she ever given you any indication before that she may be into you? Trouble is you kind of set her up to be nice to you with your "pity me" type comment, so difficult to say whether she was just being nice or whether she was signalling interest. BUT if you would like to date her, you could pick her up on that comment. Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted June 1, 2021 Share Posted June 1, 2021 It doesn't necessarily mean she is into you. You were the one who brought it up, almost as if you were fishing for a compliment. She was just responding to what you said. If she doesn't do anything else other than this to suggest she's into you, I would guess she's probably not. Link to post Share on other sites
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