GoldMind Posted June 1, 2021 Share Posted June 1, 2021 I shouldn't complain i just read a thread about a guy whose never dated in his life. But i've had some personal issues and mental issues in my life (anxiety, depression, OCD) so i haven't had that many experienes with women and girls. Then I did manage to get a girlfriend when i was 24, i met her off a dating app. She was cute, fun but had some issues herself. Funny how likes attract likes? But anyway I was totally infatuated with her... totally in love (lol). I thought she was the greatest thing ever. My first relationship. great sex, cuddling, buying each other gifts, sending good night texts, i felt like i was 15 years old. 😂😂😂. I loved every minute being with her. We went out for 8 months before she brutally dropped me / cheated on me and moved on a week later.. the warning signs were there but I ignored them. I was completely devestated. I'd never felt such pain. My chest/heart hurt so much I even lost my job. I couldn't function. Obviously I learnt a lot from it. I also realised that I think I more missed the 'idea' of her then her herself. The idea of having a girlfriend and being in love then the reality (she wasn't all that great). But that was 2 years ago. After the break up I was back on dating apps and had sex with some girls as my friends told me i need to do this to get over my ex but TBH it didn't really help. Then covid hit and everything got shut down. I haven't dated or been close to a women for a long time. I walked passed a cinema the other day and was thinking back to the time i would go to the movies with my ex and how fun it was and felt a touch of sadness. I'm on dating apps but i barely get matches. I go to bars sometimes but don't get much luck. I don't really knw what to do. Sometimes i get a bit lonely and miss dating but other times i don't care. Dating just seems like such a hastle now. Swiping through tonnes of dating apps, trying to find someone, then when you do meet what are the chances of having chemistry ? i just feel like giving up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ami1uwant Posted June 1, 2021 Share Posted June 1, 2021 Yes.....it’s normal as a single person during Covid with limited social interaction. Link to post Share on other sites
remembethename Posted June 1, 2021 Share Posted June 1, 2021 yes it is but dating is bad these days Link to post Share on other sites
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