Someone new?

[Tyscienceguy]

 

Blunt post alert. But I need opinions here.

Found out my wife cheated on me a month ago but she’s lying and telling me she didn’t. I don’t believe her. So I’ve blocked her. I’ve been hooking up with random chicks but I think I finally found the woman of my dreams. She’s got a boyfriend but she says she will break up with him but hasn’t yet. I have her working with my company taking on the manager role. She doesn’t claim me on her social media accounts.

Does anyone think she’ll leave this guy for me?

And no she doesn’t know I’m separated from my wife. Wife plans on filing for divorce anyway so what’s the point in me telling her? I consider my wife my ex wife anyway. Done with her.

[Harry Korsnes]

Wow your in a hurry!

If i were you i'd cool down and be done with your wife before you start something New.

And by the way dont lie and hide things from your new girl. 

[emprosnet7]

This is a confusing situation. After a divorce there is a period of grief and pain. You want to avoid this by hooking up even before the divorce is out.  Having your own company may be a magnet for chicks that would like a good job... What I am saying is that you must take one thing at a time. First and the marriage and then decide what to do with the new woman. But you must me clear to all directions about your indentions. 

Edited June 6, 2021 by emprosnet7

[Tyscienceguy]

4 minutes ago, Harry Korsnes said:

Wow your in a hurry!

If i were you i'd cool down and be done with your wife before you start something New.

And by the way dont lie and hide things from your new girl. 

Yes I guess it is soon... I am a little heartbroken over my wife but my new girl has a boyfriend. But she is the woman I want. My wife was 6 years younger than me. The new girl is 4 years older than me... Turned 50. Things will come together. My wife is filing for divorce and she's going to break up with her man soon. 

[Tyscienceguy]

6 minutes ago, emprosnet7 said:

This is a confusing situation. After a divorce there is a period of grief and pain. You want to avoid this by hooking up even before the divorce is out.  Having your own company may be a magnet for chicks that would like a good job... What I am saying is that you must take one thing at a time. First and the marriage and then decide what to do with the new woman. But you must me clear to all directions about your indentions. 

Well my wife is handling the divorce procedures... I don't think she'd care about my wife but I don't see the need in telling her because it will be a fast divorce procedure.  We wouldn't be here if my wife didn't cheat. 

[emprosnet7]

5 minutes ago, Tyscienceguy said:

Well my wife is handling the divorce procedures... I don't think she'd care about my wife but I don't see the need in telling her because it will be a fast divorce procedure.  We wouldn't be here if my wife didn't cheat. 

if she does not know about the divorce, she must think you are fooling around with her. Why would she leave her boyfriend? 

[Tyscienceguy]

1 minute ago, emprosnet7 said:

if she does not know about the divorce, she must think you are fooling around with her. Why would she leave her boyfriend? 

Should I tell her I'm divorced?

[emprosnet7]

2 minutes ago, Tyscienceguy said:

Should I tell her I'm divorced?

If you are serious about a common future together, you should tell her as soon as possible. 

[Harry Korsnes]

2 minutes ago, Tyscienceguy said:

Should I tell her I'm divorced?

YES!

[Tyscienceguy]

1 minute ago, Harry Korsnes said:

YES!

I just told her I was single

[Harry Korsnes]

4 minutes ago, Tyscienceguy said:

I just told her I was single

And now ur lying. How do think thats gonna turn out when she finds out? 

[emprosnet7]

13 minutes ago, Harry Korsnes said:

And now ur lying. How do think thats gonna turn out when she finds out? 

Not actually divorced but in the process of divorcing

[Harry Korsnes]

6 minutes ago, emprosnet7 said:

Not actually divorced but in the process of divorcing

How do we know that? Op Said that the wife is gonna file, has she done it?

[Tyscienceguy]

2 minutes ago, Harry Korsnes said:

How do we know that? Op Said that the wife is gonna file, has she done it?

She left a voicemail on my phone letting me know she did.

She asked me a few weeks ago if I had filed for divorce yet but I didn't want to answer her dumb question ...I just wanted to find someone fast to hurt her. So I ended up falling for this girl and shower my wife the new girl to let her know I've moved on. She's the only one talking about divorce. I've already moved on

Edited June 6, 2021 by Tyscienceguy

[usa1ah]

Did she work with you before this?

 

Why are you getting with a woman that is CHEATING on her BF with you? She will end up doing the same with you. 
 

You should have just stayed with your wife if you wanted to be with a cheater. 

Edited June 6, 2021 by usa1ah

[Tyscienceguy]

20 minutes ago, usa1ah said:

Did she work with you before this?

 

Why are you getting with a woman that is CHEATING on her BF with you? She will end up doing the same with you. 
 

You should have just stayed with your wife if you wanted to be with a cheater. 

No. We met through a lady I hired for my company. She introduced us.ci just met her 3 weeks ago.. I don't think she'll chest on me but I do work with her ex husband and he gave us his blessing and he told me she's a known chester. She just hasn't been with the right person in my opinion.

Me and wife had been off and on and I was getting exhausted on trying to make things work between us. She didn't appreciate me. I married her thinking we were going to grow old together but after the cheating, I had to let her go. She denies the cheating and I don't have physical proof but she had to have been cheating.

[dramafreezone]

 

3 hours ago, Tyscienceguy said:

No. We met through a lady I hired for my company. She introduced us.ci just met her 3 weeks ago.. I don't think she'll chest on me but I do work with her ex husband and he gave us his blessing and he told me she's a known chester. She just hasn't been with the right person in my opinion.

Me and wife had been off and on and I was getting exhausted on trying to make things work between us. She didn't appreciate me. I married her thinking we were going to grow old together but after the cheating, I had to let her go. She denies the cheating and I don't have physical proof but she had to have been cheating.

So if you don't have any physical proof (like texts or photos) then how do you know your wife was cheating?

This whole thing is a trainwreck.

[Wiseman2]

8 hours ago, Tyscienceguy said:

I’ve blocked her. I’ve been hooking up with random chicks but I think I finally found the woman of my dreams. She’s got a boyfriend but she says she will break up with him but hasn’t yet. I have her working with my company taking on the manager role. she doesn’t know I’m separated from my wife. 

Do you live with your wife? This dreamgirl works for you?  So you're lying to her about being married and you're sexually harassing her ? But that's ok, she has a BF. 

[Tyscienceguy]

42 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Do you live with your wife? This dreamgirl works for you?  So you're lying to her about being married and you're sexually harassing her ? But that's ok, she has a BF. 

How am I sexually harassing her? And no wife has an apartment that she moved to.

[amerikajin]

12 hours ago, Tyscienceguy said:

 

Blunt post alert. But I need opinions here.

Found out my wife cheated on me a month ago but she’s lying and telling me she didn’t. I don’t believe her. So I’ve blocked her. I’ve been hooking up with random chicks but I think I finally found the woman of my dreams. She’s got a boyfriend but she says she will break up with him but hasn’t yet. I have her working with my company taking on the manager role. She doesn’t claim me on her social media accounts.

Does anyone think she’ll leave this guy for me?

And no she doesn’t know I’m separated from my wife. Wife plans on filing for divorce anyway so what’s the point in me telling her? I consider my wife my ex wife anyway. Done with her.

You're heading for a disaster on so many fronts. Just b/c you found out your wife cheated doesn't excuse you from counter-cheating. Not even gonna touch the fact that you're basically pissing in your mess kit with an employee that you supervise/work with (?). 

[Tyscienceguy]

3 minutes ago, amerikajin said:

You're heading for a disaster on so many fronts. Just b/c you found out your wife cheated doesn't excuse you from counter-cheating. Not even gonna touch the fact that you're basically pissing in your mess kit with an employee that you supervise/work with (?). 

Speak your mind. It doesn't make sense to me that you all are insinuating that it's an issue. She's my gf. Doesn't make sense. 

 

It's not my fault that my wife is a lying, cheating piece of crap. She chose this and I am so thankful to her for cheating on me and being a general piece of crap because this woman is my everything, my queen.

Edited June 7, 2021 by Tyscienceguy

[Blind-Sided]

9 hours ago, Tyscienceguy said:

Speak your mind. It doesn't make sense to me that you all are insinuating that it's an issue. She's my gf. Doesn't make sense. 

 

It's not my fault that my wife is a lying, cheating piece of crap. She chose this and I am so thankful to her for cheating on me and being a general piece of crap because this woman is my everything, my queen.

OK.... you started this by saying it's a "Blunt Post"... so you will get blunt answers.  So don't get upset with the responses because they are correct.

They are right.  This is a train wreck.

1) You have no proof your stbXw was cheating. Are you sure that this isn't something you created to justify your actions?

2) The new GF works with you. (always a bad idea)

3) You call her your GF... but have only bee dating 3 weeks? how?

4)  You call her your GF but she has a BF.   To be your GF, you have to be exclusive... and you are not. 

5) By your own words... You rushed into finding a GF to hurt your stbXw.  This is classic rebound.

6) You started dating this girl based off of a lie.  The foundation of trust is what makes a relationship.  If she finds the truth... she may walk away. So, tell her the truth now before this gets deeper !!

You are a adult... and since it sounds like you own your own company, you obviously have a brain. So, then take a step back... read the points above... and reflect on them without the anger of what your stbXw has done, or not done. 

[Harry Korsnes]

18 minutes ago, Blind-Sided said:

OK.... you started this by saying it's a "Blunt Post"... so you will get blunt answers.  So don't get upset with the responses because they are correct.

They are right.  This is a train wreck.

1) You have no proof your stbXw was cheating. Are you sure that this isn't something you created to justify your actions?

2) The new GF works with you. (always a bad idea)

3) You call her your GF... but have only bee dating 3 weeks? how?

4)  You call her your GF but she has a BF.   To be your GF, you have to be exclusive... and you are not. 

5) By your own words... You rushed into finding a GF to hurt your stbXw.  This is classic rebound.

6) You started dating this girl based off of a lie.  The foundation of trust is what makes a relationship.  If she finds the truth... she may walk away. So, tell her the truth now before this gets deeper !!

You are a adult... and since it sounds like you own your own company, you obviously have a brain. So, then take a step back... read the points above... and reflect on them without the anger of what your stbXw has done, or not done. 

Hmm!  Not to be rude. Could she wants a d bc of the way he's acting?

[ShyViolet]

You think that a woman who you met three weeks ago, who has a BF, is the "woman of your dreams"?  And you are starting off this relationship with her by lying and hiding the fact that you're just getting out of a marriage and getting divorced?  This whole thing is a mess and you are making poor decisions.  This is going to end in a train wreck.  

No relationship is likely to work out when it starts with lying.  This relationship is starting out with lying on TWO fronts... she is cheating on her BF, and you are lying by saying you are single and hiding a very relevant piece of information that you're actually going through a divorce.  She might not care that you're going through a divorce, but it's something that you should be honest about.  It's also incredibly poor judgment to think someone is the woman of your dreams and jump into a relationship with her when you just met her three weeks ago, and you are just getting out of a drama-filled divorce.

[Tyscienceguy]

1 hour ago, ShyViolet said:

You think that a woman who you met three weeks ago, who has a BF, is the "woman of your dreams"?  And you are starting off this relationship with her by lying and hiding the fact that you're just getting out of a marriage and getting divorced?  This whole thing is a mess and you are making poor decisions.  This is going to end in a train wreck.  

No relationship is likely to work out when it starts with lying.  This relationship is starting out with lying on TWO fronts... she is cheating on her BF, and you are lying by saying you are single and hiding a very relevant piece of information that you're actually going through a divorce.  She might not care that you're going through a divorce, but it's something that you should be honest about.  It's also incredibly poor judgment to think someone is the woman of your dreams and jump into a relationship with her when you just met her three weeks ago, and you are just getting out of a drama-filled divorce.

Well my wife just contacted her....so now she knows. My wife was wanting to get divorce information to file but she pissed me off SO much that I let her know how much I hated her and how much of a lying cheating b**** she is. So I blocked her at work. I told her I would call her at 4 and unblock but I was so mad that I couldn't hold it in. So I sent her more photos of me and my gf with my daughter and told her off. So instead of leaving me alone, she sends a message to my gf. About how she doesn't want me and that she only wanted information to file for divorce. I know better! She's just trying to start drama! She told her about the naked photos I sent! I'm so mad!