Is there any good book on long distance relationship ?

[romancerecipe]

I have also been in a long distance relationship at the time of this pandemic. And there is a lot of emotion involved in this relationship and it involves fighting and sometimes I think about breaking the relationship. I am very confused. And finally I had to take help of google to find the best book on this topic if anyone have suggestion please share here.

I got 2 books from google which give me strength to continue my relationship but still I want to read some book

I have read 2 books from amazon and it has helped me a lot so if anyone is interested I will share this books as well and trust me this 2 books are too good.

[Wiseman2]

11 minutes ago, romancerecipe said:

 And there is a lot of emotion involved in this relationship and it involves fighting and sometimes I think about breaking the relationship. 

How long have you been dating? Have you met in person?

Perhaps you should listen to your instincts and end your unhappiness?

What is the fighting about?

It may be better to reflect if distance and this situation are working out for you.

 

Edited June 7, 2021 by Wiseman2

[romancerecipe]

I am dating from past one year and yes I met him before, after pandemic we never met because we live in different city and we fight for no reason but after reading books I found that It happens in a every relationship.

[hippychick3]

It sounds like you’re grasping at straws to try and justify staying with someone who is wrong for you. No book can fix a long distance relationship that just isn’t working. 

[romancerecipe]

Brother i am not saying that i read something and i adopted in my life but through this 2 books i removed all my stress and i went ahead, and i like to read so in this way i use my time I use it and your opinion is appreciated.

[MsJayne]

If you need a book, it just ain't working. I think LDR's are mostly based on false expectations and misrepresentations, and if you argue before you've even spent any time together in person that's a very good predictor that that a proper relationship would fail.  

[Lotsgoingon]

If you guys can't really work out it, I'm not sure a book will help. Part of what makes a ldr work is that the two people learn how to enjoy each other's company in between seeing each other.

I had a good ldr at a time. My partner and I would basically telephone each other and talk for a good hour after work each day. We got really good at enjoying those conversations and keeping up with each other's day-to-day lives. It's funny: we decompressed on the phone with each other probably better than I have done in relationships that weren't long distance. 

I can share: whenever I've looked for books to resolve relationship problems, usually that was a sign that I was really unhappy about some element of the relationship but wasn't confident enough to accept that and to speak out.