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So, we have a mutual breakup on december, after that i ásk to got back and she refused and only offer friendship.

I became silent since march, 3 months of NC, and she start to post status on Whatspp (breadcrumbs maybe ? ) last week, some days later i start posting on whatsapp status too, but only normal stuff ( dinner, clean my home, etc) and preparing for my birthday, because i am alone on this day,, no friends or family, dont know if is a form of contact, but, she start to seeing my status, and one day after, she deleted my number, i dont understand anything, any advice?

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a)She is trying to forget me,

b)or she make this to get a reaction from me?

c) any other option?

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9 hours ago, Lukes said:

she deleted my number, i dont understand anything, any advice?

Sorry this is happening. Where are your friends and family?

How long were you dating? What was the breakup about? How old is she?

The best thing you can do for yourself is delete and block her and all her people from ALL your social media and messaging apps.

Stop the nonsense and guessing games. You'll feel much better.

Why aren't you on dating apps talking to and meeting women? 

Get involved in life more so you can make some friends.

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You broke up.  She told one of the standard break up white lies:  let's be friends.  She didn't really mean it.  All she wants is no drama. 

She was OK with being social media contact but even then she decided she didn't want to read your posts any more. 

I know it hurts.  Getting broken up with sucks.   You are lonely & you feel that more acutely on your birthday.  I hope you found some way to make it good for yourself. 

At this point you need to focus on rebuilding your life & your social circle.  Make some friends.  Volunteer somewhere.  Get involved now that the world is re-opening.  

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22 hours ago, d0nnivain said:

You broke up.  She told one of the standard break up white lies:  let's be friends.  She didn't really mean it.  All she wants is no drama. 

She was OK with being social media contact but even then she decided she didn't want to read your posts any more. 

This answers all man. It's been a long time she is strong enough to go on without you now. You should delete her number too and move on.

 

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